TL;DR – I’ve (F30) been with my boyfriend (M35) for almost 1.5 years. He has a baby mama who regularly talk with his mom. I’ve only spoken to his mom twice on video calls and have never met her in person because she lives kinda far from us. Recently, he got into an argument with his mom where she said he was making his baby mama his whole world and that he wasn’t serious about me. He denied it and told his mom he was serious about building a future with me, but I still feel like she doesn’t take me seriously.
He struggles with drug use but he’s getting help for it and hasn’t been spending enough time with his kids lately, and I’m pretty sure his mom and baby mama blame me for that. From what I can tell, they all group together and talk about me behind my back, which makes me feel invisible and disrespected.
I want to stay in this relationship because I love him and he’s trying to do better but I need advice/help on what to do next and how to handle his toxic baby mama and mom.
Thanks in advance for any advice.
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his mom is “toxic” for pointing out that he’s giving more attention to his ex than his gf?
I mean – IS he?
Go visit the r/ JUSTNOMIL sub. This is your future