Like when she wants something, instead of telling her, you make her guess what you are about to get.
Boys, what girl habits have you figured out?
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Like when she wants something, instead of telling her, you make her guess what you are about to get.
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Angry, frustrated, sad, overwhelmed, no matter what negative emotion she’s feeling step 1 is making sure she doesn’t have an empty stomach.
Maybe = Yes
Yes = Maybe, if I don’t change my mind
No = could be yes, maybe, or no. Depending on the context. She gets pissed if you don’t get it.
Girls working in predominantly male spaces tend to fake smile more
Girls working in female spaces seem to be rude, inattentive and mean
I’m not sure what that says about any of us
Girls night out is NEVER just girls night. Be warned.
Obligatory not all women.
Don’t immediately or always offer solutions when something is wrong unless asked, just listen. That’s all we often want in that moment, chances are a game plan for an actual solution is already in mind, just gotta get whatever negative emotion out of the way first.
What is this question? You just land on earth this week?
Romance books are literally just pornography that’s publicly acceptable
That no adult likes to be called a girl or boy?
She is in fact hungry. Do yourself a favor and make more or buy more. And bonus points, remember her order.
If she asks you if you want to share a dessert, she wants dessert and will get mad if you say “naw I’m good”.
Handpicking bad boys who then treat them badly.
Girls don’t like boys
Girls like cars and money
Women are conditioned to never be straightforward with their wants/needs. There’s of course many, many jokes about men being frustrated that women can never state plainly what they want, but the few I’ve met who do are immediately decried as bitchy and demanding. (Surprisingly, most often by other women. It’s amazing how people of the same gender police each other for ‘acceptable’ behavior far more than men do to women or vice versa.)
So not a habit per se, but I have learned to make extensive use of my phone’s Notes app to mark down any item she wants but won’t spend money on, events she shows interest in, and remarks she makes about favorite bands/movies/properties/etc. You keep a cheat sheet so you don’t wind up approaching birthdays or Christmas or whatever with no ideas.
Oh, also, if a woman asks your love language and you say “physical touch” she will write you off as only being after sex. I hate the whole love languages nonsense, personally, but it is pervasive and will likely come up with any romantic partner or potential romantic partner. Do not be dishonest, but really think of another way you feel love or express it.
The reason women don’t verbalize things they want is because they want to think her boyfriend/husband is in tune with her needs without asking.
they love to lie.
Feed and turn off and on again.
Learn 3 things sorry, thank you baby , whatever you say baby
Venting is how they process their emotions, and they don’t want you to offer a solution.
If she seems cranky for no apparent reason, she probably wants more attention and/or dick and doesn’t want to come right out and say it.
She doesn’t know where she wants to eat, so the easiest way to find out is to say that y’all will eat at someplace you choose, and if she doesn’t decide by the time you get there, that’s where you will eat.
They will make time for you if they really like you.
If you ask her out, anything other than a yes is a no. Don’t let her string you along with “maybe”. Women make things unbelievably easy for guys that they’re actually into. Once you realize this you’ll never bother chasing again. It sucks when you’re not that guy, especially when you really like her, but you just have to accept the loss and move on.
Don’t expect a straight answer out of them. Most women hate direct confrontation. “Hey you said you were too busy but I saw you out with your friends. What happened?” “Ohhh yeah well see [insert bullshit answer here]”.
They tend to not like other women in general, but especially if they see them as competition. Men will try to improve themselves – if a bigger stronger guy comes around, other guys will hit the gym. If a funnier guy comes around, other guys will start watching stand up comedy to get funnier. Women get nasty. “I don’t like her…” and then start listing off reasons why. I was friends with two female coworkers a few years back and the three of us went to lunch one day. A new, pretty woman had started working in the office a couple of weeks before that and naturally she was getting a parade of attention from the men there (I worked in oil&gas so it’s already big news when a woman starts working there; if she’s objectively pretty it’s a front page breaking alert). As soon as the three of us left the office my two friends started ripping that new woman to shreds. “She doesn’t know what she’s doing, she’s actually kind of dumb, I hear her breath stinks (yes they actually said this), she’s not actually that pretty,”. This went on the whole time we were out. It was honestly hilarious. I told them both that they were just jealous and of course they denied it.
She gets awfully clingy leading up to ovulation. It’s like where I am, she has to be. Can’t even take a shit without her knocking on the door wondering when i’m going to be done. Of course, on the flip side – two weeks later she’s PMSing and makes herself scarce like a cat.
Don’t ask her for her input on what to do, what to watch, what to eat, what’s going on around her…she’s not going to know and is expecting you to figure it out for her.
Some variation of it, happens to me all the time.
When women prefer much older men (10+ year gap), it’s a virtual certainty they have daddy issues and they’ll be acting out their emotional wounds on you. Avoid them if you don’t enjoy unnecessary drama, arguments and stress.
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When she says she’s almost ready, it’s going to be another 30 minutes.
I’m not in the mood to figure it out today
The past is a fun place to go back to if it’s not their own.
They tend to write the article before the headline when you talk with each other
When you go somewhere, and run into someone you know. That ” I’ll be there in a minute” . Translation, I’ll see you in about 20 – 25 minutes later. Time is relative I guess 😂
As a female, my boyfriend has learned that I never want a drink during a meal, I’ll always say no. Idk why but I’ve been like this since e childhood. I’ll just be parched afterwards.
So he’s learned to ask, but then always just get me water even when I say no. I drink it 110% of the time and the poor guy thinks I’m crazy lol
They’re all crazy you just gotta pick the crazy you think you can best live with
One apology will save you a dozen headaches
Girls create fights when they want to break up. Relationship is strong but I don’t want to be in it anymore? Let’s weaken it a bit
Girl here. If I apologize first, whether you were right or wrong, find something that you can also apologize for.