Has anyone had a breast reduction over 30 and been UNHAPPY thereafter?
I’m seriously considering a reduction, though I’m not as endowed (36 E) as many women who consider this extreme (imo) option, I am at a place where I cannot stand my boobs.
I hate them in any sort of shirt, or well fitting bra, or without a bra. I’m just over them!
But! I’m also afraid of going under & fearful I might hate the result.
Not sure if it’s relevant to others decision or expierence, but my body type is when/if I gain weight, it goes to my breasts first & generally when I lose weight, it drops there first too. I feel like as I’m aging (33) weight loss/gain is hugely affecting elasticity in my boobs too. Like, even when I’m weighing less now they look flat & saggy (no kids) and I’m just at a loss. I hate them & want some opinions from those who’ve done it & your experience !
Thanks in advance.
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I had a reduction in 2020 @ 33 yrs. Went from a G down to a D. I would do it over and over if I needed to. I was ecstatic with the results and my recovery was not nearly as bad as I hyped it in my head. I add: I was moderately physically fit, don’t smoke and am a very light drinker.
If you’re already thinking about it, 10/10 recommend. Do your due diligence on your surgeon!
I had a breast reduction (DDD to C/D) in 2008, but I was 22 at the time. I then had a breast lift last year (after two babies and weight fluctuations). I have absolutely no regrets. My reduction truly changed my life, and I was so happy with results that I didnt hesitate when it came time to do the lift. In both cases, my “before” breasts were a burden and a source of self consciousness, and I cried tears of joy when I saw my results.
My big piece of advice is to do your research to find a surgeon in your area that is skilled in breast surgery (not just implants) and who will be real with you. A reduction doesn’t guarantee your breasts will never change size/sag in the coming years, but a good surgeon will talk you through that and manage your expectations so you can go into the surgery with confidence.
I had mine in 2017 at the age of 27 and have no regrets. Sorry, know you asked for over 30 but I thought it would be helpful to share! I was a DDD and went to a C and like you, I didn’t like my breasts at all. Have never liked them and they came in at the age of 14 as Ds and kept getting bigger. After surgery, it felt like I finally had the body I was meant to have. Recovery really isn’t that bad either but everyone is different, I think my pain tolerance and how quickly my body can bounce back helped me but it’s like a week off from work and then a a few months of being mindful of how much weight you’re lifting, movements, exercising, etc.
ETA: nearly 10 years later, they still look amazing. Definitely follow the scar treatment your surgeon recommends, my scars are almost non existent! And like someone else said, do your research on surgeons, have some consultations, see who makes you feel comfortable and answers all your questions. My surgeon specialized in breasts and along with the reduction she did a lift and reshaping (her standard but may not be for all surgeons).
I’ve known a few women who had it and definitely only were sad they waited. Everyone is different though and I’m sure it must depend on the patient’s expectations and the skill of the surgeon.
I went from L/M to roughly DD at 35. 12 pounds of tissue. Mine was extreme enough that grafting had to be done, so sensation is gone and I would be 100% unable to breastfeed post-surgery. I am glad that I waited until I was done with babies. It was by far my hardest surgical recovery; I have something like 37 linear inches of stitches plus all the ones that are internal. No regrets.
Breast reduction surgery does not look natural. You can lose your nipples sensitivity or your nipples entirely. You will have scars. I have extreme big boobs and it’s a pain to find bras that fit, but I am not going to chop my body off because of that. I’ve been bullied my whole life by other women because of my boobs out of jealousy. Getting a breast reduction would make them very happy, so no. I wish my boobs grow more, to piss off even more women. If your back hurts, do some back exercises to gain muscle. It will help.
My wife just had hers in January, 31 y.o. I’ve never seen her happier. Day 1 her posture was so much better. We can share dresses! She’s able to excercise more, no more heartburn.. so much already.
Still healing, but the results and impact have been incredible! The recovery is not too bad. It was her first time going under so she was nervous too. I don’t care for it either. But anesthesiologists are crazy good, they will keep you safe.
i had mine done at 30 and have zero regrets. the recovery wasn’t bad at all and results are pretty immediate. like you just feel lighter. you will have scars and may lose nipple sensation but it’s still absolutely worth it imo.
Had a reduction 6 months ago, 36G to a 36C/D, and could not be happier!! I don’t have to wear a bra, I can buy from any brand, everything fits better. Zero regrets!!
Just here to say that your size is “endowed” enough. I was a large D, probably a DD when I had mine.
I’ve literally never talked to heard of a single person who regretted it
I regret mine. My boobs have grown back to the original size and I have fairly bad looking scars because the skin is so tightly stretched now. I had mine in my early 20s and am in my 30s now.
Mum had a breast reduction. First off, the doctor asked why she waited so long. He said most women he saw were 20 years younger. She wanted to reduce but also make them equal. She was happy with the results.
One time I was standing around with three other women and the subject turned to breast reduction. They all had the surgery. All had complained of being sexually harassed in their teen years because of their size. Clothes never fit right, they had back aches, etc. All three said they were happy with the result.