Some times when I get mad I will purposefully go break things so I have to fix them. Getting me away from not only the people in the house that are usually the ones irritating me to begin with and also gives me something to do to break the boredom. Today my wife was on my nerves complaining about a song I wrote her because I got help with the musical accompaniment from AI. She tells me it’s not my song anymore. I got mad so I ripped the door of the chicken house off so I could blame my frustration on that so she wouldn’t know it was her and then I get to spend the day fixing it instead of listening to her tell me how little a song I worked on for years means.
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There’s a lot going on here
Communication is key to a successful relationship. You shouldn’t hold anger and things in because they turn to resentment. You should tell your wife in a calm way and let her know what she’s doing is aggravating you.
I think my husband does a version of this. He’s ADHD and loves projects. But his projects always sprawl and take forever.
I don’t think he breaks things intentionally but I do think he tries things that he knows won’t work just for more time on the project.
I don’t care, I think it’s cute/funny how many projects he does.
I think you might wanna talk to your wife about the song though. Sounds like you’re pretty hurt (100% understandably) and I bet she would not like to know she caused this pain.
Not addressing anything else in here but Shes right about the song
Everyone is just kind of a oiding the fact that OP’s wife was basically like, "Well AI wrote part of it, so it’s not your song, nutsack."
Thanks for being supportive, honey!
Wow.
You have anger issues
Go to therapy and realize that things like this aren’t ok at all and your wife is more than likely walking on eggshells to avoid angering you
Something as simple as that made you violent???
I don’t like how people aren’t giving you a reality check so here i go
This is stupid, immature, abusive behavior. You need therapy or else your relationships will continue to suffer. And you don’t even see they are suffering because you are convinced this is a right and ok thing to do. And it’s absolutely not.
The fact you said this so casually without any semblance of guilt or remorse is a tell tell sign that something isn’t right in your head.
Get therapy and maybe consider the fact that people’s perception of you aren’t going to change anytime soon if ever.
Therapy. Get it.