[California] My friend got an E-mail from a “child support service specialist” that someone he hooked up had a baby and is claiming it’s his.

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[Location: California] This came out of nowhere for him and I am looking for some advice on his behalf since he doesn’t use reddit. Can someone really just go and claim their kid is someone’s with no process to confirm? I told him he definitely needs to talk a lawyer but looking for any relevant advice ahead of time for him. Thanks!

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  1. SlogTheNog Avatar

    This isn’t terribly uncommon because federal law requires states to attempt to identify fathers of children born to mother seeking public benefits like welfare. Yes, they can literally slap down pretty much anyone’s name and I really don’t think that an attorney is necessary here because all the attorney’s going to do is tell him that he probably just needs to take a DNA test to determine if he’s the father or not. 

    He’s absolutely is the kind of situation where under no circumstance should it be ignored. It never hurts to get a consultation with the family practice lawyer. But like I said, paternity is a pretty straightforward question here because he’s either the father or he’s not.

  2. West-Association812 Avatar

    Sounds like a scam. While the other party can petition the courts for a paternity test it generally comes as a traditional summons and not like how it is described.

  3. DiabloConQueso Avatar

    >Can someone really just go and claim their kid is someone’s with no process to confirm?

    There’s no process to confirm?

    DNA test, which has been around almost 50 years, once the baby is born. He can petition the courts for this to establish (or disprove) his paternity. It’s somewhat common.

    These kinds of things are usually not communicated via email.

  4. Beautiful-Parsley-24 Avatar

    Fortunately, in 2025, DNA tests are almost 100% accurate for paternity.

  5. Mindless-Damage-5399 Avatar

    Ok, I work for child support, but not in CA. Anyone can apply and name anyone as the father. However, we would never just email a person. Our standard procedure is that once we process an application, we make a phone call and send a letter via mail notifying them of the case, and it gives them a date and time to come into the local office. The letter is on letter head and lists the contact information. He can call the child support number to verify there’s an open case. If so, he needs to contact them immediately and request DNA testing. It’s also best he cooperates with the agency because he can possibly waive service and avoid being charged for service.

  6. andreaalma15 Avatar

    Are you sure this is the first time he’s been contacted about this? Usually you would get something in the mail or be served