Fairly easily as in like within a week or so.
I can’t get laid for the life of me no matter how many guys i try lol so it make me wonder how hard it is for the average person
Today is a good day to learn
Fairly easily as in like within a week or so.
I can’t get laid for the life of me no matter how many guys i try lol so it make me wonder how hard it is for the average person
Today is a good day to learn
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I mean I think so? Have a few drinks and head to a club, find someone you like the look of, providing you’re both consenting adults head home and go for it.
I mean, if their standards are on the floor perhaps
If you’re open to every possible action that would meet the definition of “getting laid,” then yes, getting laid is a low bar for most people. Getting laid with someone you have a mutual attraction with, is a higher bar.
Yes. You need to go out my friend. Keep trying. It’s always a hit or miss kinda game. Don’t take it personal. Once you accept that it will be much easier.
It’s not that difficult.
Get laid? Yes. Get laid by someone you’re attracted to in a safe and dignified way and in the manner you want? Not really.
I never had much trouble and I’ve never been particularly attractive and always been on the heavier side.
All I ever did was treat women like people, be honest about my intentions and didn’t play games.
Much easier for women than for men usually. Women are much more selective than men are.
RIP your inbox.
You can almost always find someone with low enough standards but the real question is why would it being easy be better? You can always whackit
If you really want to you could get laid in hours lmao the depth of the connectionight be fragile though and that’s the beauty of it
Everyone is pretty much in agreement. Getting laid is easy if you have no standards, the higher your standards the harder it is to get laid.
It depends on a couple of things. Obviously, if you are good looking, it is usually easier. But even if you are good looking but you have low self esteem, that is a major turn off for a lot of people. Rhetorical question: How do you feel about how you look? Also, coming across as desperate (I am NOT saying you are doing that) will definitely get you friend zoned.
Mixed answer from someone recently single:
In general, yes. Though certain groups have an easier time of it.
Growing up, I assumed adulthood was like what I saw from adults in tv shows and sitcoms. New partner every week.
How much do you weigh
Lower your standards lol
But yeah, it’s not that hard honestly.
Maybe it’s me?
Maybe my generation.
But as a middle age dude I can get laid fairly easy.
Lots of single middle age women that like to have fun without the commitment of marriage or dating.
Except for JD Vance then you need to buy a couch.
I have a feeling you’re going to get a lot of offers today
Rip your inbox
It depends on what you’re looking for. Save some money up, find a pro. That’s easy.
I’m married, so…. No
Depends on your own personal standards.
Also if you’re going after someone of the same sex as you then it’s a lot easier.
I think if you go into dating just trying to get laid you’ll either be unsuccessful or unsatisfied.
If you go into dating trying to find someone to form a genuine connection with, you’ll be more successful and satisfied.
Any time limit is absurd.
Yes. Enough swipes on tinder and within 10 minutes you’re meeting someone in a crack den. May not be the best, but some people will do it
There are factors like geography for how many potential partners there are, if you have a weird reputation, if you have a weird smell, your looks and your standards. But yeah if you just want sex don’t care who with. The average person can pull that off in a relatively short time if that’s their only goal.
It’s probably your approach, if you come off as desperate it’s not fun for the other person. So play it cool, relax about it and just meet some people. Or get on dating apps and play the number game.
I used to get laid all the time but that ended when I got into a serious relationship. 😃
Feedback from the comment section: Short answer – Yes. Long answer – No. lol it checks! You just have to put yourself out there every chance you get. Have standards and stick to them. You got this!
totally! I just have to ask my wife. Last time it only took me 23 tries!
If you’re willing to leave your house and have the ability to communicate and have either zero standards or some money, then you can get laid pretty easily. Usually, when someone wants to get laid but can’t, it’s usually an issue of a lack of socialization opportunities (outside of work) and a lack of social skills.
I can’t speak for most people but for me I’m married so I’d say yes. It’s just a matter of when and where … and various other factors.
Some statistics bear out the reality that nearly 1 in 3 young men are not having sex at all right now
And I think if people were polling middle age men..those numbers would likely be the same or maybe even a little higher…but then again, most guys are not being honest because they know if they tell people they can’t get laid, it will make it even harder for them to get laid
Getting laid or a relationship? Former is easy if you have a personality, same for men and women. What happens these days is standards of looks expected has shot up, rather than actually liking someone! stats show Gen Z get less sex that previous gens. Too much screen time! Too many “choices”
It depends what your standards are and what kind of experience you’re looking for.
I think, yeah, most people could find someone to have sec with them within a week.
Some people will be better at finding someone who they’re attracted to have sex with than others are.
Factors include age, how conventionally attractive you are, whether you’re looking for sex with a man or a woman, whether you’re gay, straight, or bi, what type of sex are you looking for, what are your standards for that sexual partner, are you willing to pay for it, do you have experience dating and just generally talking to people, etc etc etc.
I stopped trying after dating people who were idiots. I have the unconscious bias that everyone is an idiot and would be detrimental to my life and happiness. I guess it’s a conscious bias, but either way I have no answer for you.
Are you male or female? I feel like that changes the answer
Depends on your looks, sexual orientation, exactly what you want to do, etc, but if you lower your standards enough than generally yes.
No
Women, if they’re not extremely homely, can get laid today. It’s not the same case for most men. For most men it takes luck, skill, strategy, years of hardwork and/or discipline. 60%+ of American men in their 20s haven’t had sex in a long time
Yes. Go to a bar with women and be cool. The funnier you are the easier it is but most importantly is to be confident in yourself. If you feel strongly about something she’s saying and it seems like you fee like you have to compromise yourself just be good at wording yourself to outline your position without being aggressive or argumentative. That being said it depends on the girl. Some girls want conflict that can be difused through humor yet makes u seem superior. It varies you just need to find your line and not be rapey. Don’t think about sex but use innuendos on and off. Listen. Don’t drink too much. Don’t be afraid to make a move and don’t be afraid to get rejected. Feeling afraid and being afraid are two different things.
Purely sex, within a week time frame?
99/100 women could do so.
90/100 men could do so.
I doubt you’re really that outlier, more likely bad luck. Maybe not going to the best areas for sex, maybe not coming off as approachable etc etc. could be many things.
From my perspective, it’s a damn near impossibility. I’m 42. Recently I was thinking of the last time I was laid and how that very well might be it for me.
I guess I need to find a hobby or something.
The loneliness is crushing. ☹️
If you don’t care about WHAT type of fish you catch, yeah, getting laid is easy. Plenty of lonely, smelly, fat women are just itching to have some human connection. Well, itching from that and the mold growing in their fat folds.
Women can get laid easier than men. If it’s just fun you are looking for
Getting laid is easy, getting laid with people you actually WANT and not settle for is hard
From like 16 – 25 yeah I could get laid pretty easily. Now I’m in my 30s, I have a few casual partners that I see but if I wanted to find someone new it would probably take a bit. But I have no idea what the scene is like for people in their early 20s so don’t take my experience as the norm.
But if you’re a woman looking for men, you could probably get laid today if you just went on tinder and started swiping or looked on meet up subs here.
And the most direct answer to your question, yes. If nothing else, you can always pay somebody.
If you’re willing to abandon your standards, sure. Personally I’d rather just not get laid until I find someone I really like.
For some people yes. But then you have the question of quality. You don’t want to be scraping the bottom of the barrel
I can. Only because; I have very few self-limiting beliefs
After 45 you become invisible so keep that in mind.
I don’t get laid often, I don’t get laid at all as the matter of fact. But my friends who are not in relationships I’d say do it about twice a week on average.
Convincing another person, man or woman, to have sex with you is not that difficult as long as you’re in the right place and look decent. The very first and only time I’ve ever got laid was in a party, I approached a girl, talked with her for like 20 minutes and then we went to her dorm and that’s it. We weren’t even drunk. We even went back to party after the deed was done.
If you’re a woman (which I believe you are) then it’s stupidly easy because most men will not refuse a request for sex unless you’re way too far from their preferences since men are far less selective than women. I strongly believe if a woman just asked for sex most men would say yes.
fairly attractive guy here 🙂 Yes it’s not. hard to get laid but with a person you really feel attracted to and have. a great connection that’s hard. Pretty damn hard 🙁
Yes just pay for it.
If you have a significant amount of disposable income, it’s fairly simple in some areas.
Assuming you’re an heterosexual woman, it’s very odd you find it hard to get laid.
No.