My fiancée (30M) & I (27F) are both active duty military. He has a child from his first marriage & I also have a child from my former marriage. We currently live together & have been for the past year. While we were living with each other we had both of our children staying with us throughout the school year. His ex-wife abruptly says I cannot be around their child anymore or she will take “ legal action” . I have not harmed or shown I am not capable of taking care of my kids. There is no proof or evidence of any fool play whatsoever. Again, I am active duty military, drug-free, drama-free, stable income, stable household.
She’s being impossible to deal with & I know my fiancée has rights.
Location: California
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Is there a custody order in place?
Is there is some court order in place by way of their custody agreement/divorce decree that specifies who the parents cannot bring around the child? If so, do you fall into such a category of person?
I’m going to guess not, but have your fiancée check the divorce decree either way. She can threaten legal action but if the situation is as you say it is, I can’t imagine how she would succeed.
Did this truly come out of nowhere or was there some event/fight this stemmed from?
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She has to have a logical and LEGAL reason for her demand. Without any evidence of you being a danger to her child, other than her extreme jealousy, no court would grant her a restraining order against you. Who the child is around while with your fiancé, is none of her business unless that someone is a known predator of some kind. She’s acting out because she’s angry. Your fiancé should file for full custody due to her obvious mental distress which could cause harm to the child.