I was going through a rough patch a few years ago and came up with a saying to comfort myself. ‘My goodness is not suspect’, I repeated it like a mantra until the negative stuff stuff would subside, did it everywhere biking, walking, meditating etc.
Your brain is lying to you that you are uncapable of being loved. As a formerly suicidal mess, I can attest that often the worst critic is our own unregulated emotions and chemicals. Please hear this. I haven’t even met you and I love you. That’s not a statement from an unconsidered philosophy or a comment I wrote in 10 seconds. I spent 15 minutes of my life writing this, for you. Your life is worth living and you are worthy of a life that is thriving and happy. If you aren’t feeling that, don’t be afraid to reach out for help.
With all the love I can send you psychically and virtually,
You do deserve love and are absolutely not worthless, no one truly is as we all have our path in life that will benefit ourselves and others in ways we can’t predict yet.
But as advice you shouldn’t seek this affirmation from reddit, this is an easy way to have some weirdo try to take advantage of you so be careful about that
I promise you are worth something. even if you don’t feel valued there are people out there who find value in you, the fact that this many strangers care is proof of that. you’re loved. you’re as precious as any soul
Every person who is born of this Earth, this divine universe and beyond, is worthy of love, and you are no different.
Every child who is born is born with the greatest potential to add something truly great to existence, and you have yet to fulfill that potential, but it will come regardless.
Whether you believe in something higher or not, you must truly believe in yourself and love yourself because you are a part of something so much greater, and without you, we could not have it the way it is.
Every moment you have spent here, for better or for worse, is a lesson for you and everyone you interact with. And know one truth, no matter how you may feel, you will never truly know the impact you have on any person’s life. You could have just easily waved hello at someone on the street, and that could be a memory they cherish forever and be the catalyst that reshapes their life into something beautiful.
You have a power that lies within you that will influence things in ways you have yet to see, and it is at the precipice of your grasp once you embrace the love the universe has for you.
I have always said that not all those who stumble and feel hurt are forever fallen. They just need a push back onto the path to achieve their greatness.
I love you, random Stranger, and may the blessings of the beyond give you the greatest peace you could ever know and the heart to carry on.
Here for you. I know the feeling of self hatred & deception. Be as kind to yourself as you can. I know that is a puny statement but it goes a far way. Much love. We got you
Alright, since most humans in the chat did what you asked (barring a few worthless pos who just can’t give anything positive to the world)
Here’s a breakdown of what has happened so far:
1: people told you they loved you. I can assure you, when i see a post like this, it reminds me of a past of my own and i just wish i could give that person infinite hugs. Really.
2: someone suggested therapy, because it is one way that can solve certain issues that you may or may not believe you are going through. They care.
3: someone was rude. They were downvoted/content removed by others. Everyone cares.
4: you are alive. You want to live, and i can guarantee that just because you actually asked to be loved. Deep down you know you can be, and deserve, some love too. Also, you knew you would get it here without judgement. You care.
5: maybe you have explored every other avenue, or maybe you’re too scared to check another box off your list. But hey, you just need one place, right? So why not keep trying.
There was this saying, The value of water, ask that traveler stranded in the desert. For they value it as much as life itself.
You deserve love and I’m sure you will give it back a million folds once received.
Anyway, let me finish my rant by saying I love you. Again, infinite hugs! Goodbye to the day that passed, welcome to the day that approaches.
I love you. I’m sorry that everything that’s been happening has been happening and I truly do hope that it gets better for you. If you want to talk privately I’m almost always available. I’ll try my best (although my answers tend to be kind of dry)
I love you. It’s always darkest before the dawn. Your worth is there, even if you can’t see it from here.
Go drink a big glass of water and then go stand in the sun. 20 minutes three times a week. It’s better if you can have your bare feet on the ground too. Please. For me. Because I love you.
That means you have begrudgingly decided to live. I know it’s sometimes hard to do the simple things like making food, taking showers and sleeping an appropriate amount of time for your body to rest. I know it’s a privilege to have any free time the poorer you are and to be surrounded by those who love you back. Unfortunately, happiness comes from within. Medicine or therapy but the main force is you. I’m not advocating that you should be happy, I’m only acknowledging the struggle. If you’re disabled/disfigured, traumatized by evil people, ugly by unrealistic social standards, it’s not crazy to think it’s damn near impossible to smile. If you have been given a finite time then I have no words to express the sorrow. At least know that you, I and everyone deserves love. It is one of the things in life that feels limitless. Love thyself so you can love others. A loveless soul is as strong as a black hole but the only force that will wither it down will start from self-love. And it’s not a one time thing. You cannot just be aware of the things you should be happy about or things that will make you happy. You need that awareness and more. It’s a constant battle that needs to be done step by step. It has to turn into a habit.
Just don’t give up on yourself dammit . Not as long as you got breath in your lungs.
I don’t know what causes your suffering, but someone is hoping to find someone like you. Yes, even with your faults. Your smile may be like a very dim starlight, but it can be someone’s sun. All you need is action. it’s natural to feel scared, but it’s necessary to do it even if you are
Hey, OP, I love you. I hope you know that I think you’re worth everything even when you don’t. I think you matter, I know you matter, and I know that you’re your worth any and everything and then some.
You are loved. From one lonely soul to another…I promise you, there is still light and love and laughter and nice moments coming your way. There will be hugs, and fun meals, and ice cream, and music, and books, and cute animals, and a life in color.
You are loved and you are in the thoughts of many many internet strangers tonight, and we care.
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I lab you
dont listen to them you are loved especially the people in your life there’s love everywhere.
Your not trash and you are loved
I love you, You are worth everything.
You are so loved. Always know that. You deserve the world.
No
I love you!
I love you, you are not wothless piece of garbage, smile, drink water and sleep your 8 hours, we care for you.
I love you. Someone loved me. But I was never taught how to be emotional. So I couldn’t love her back.
By the time I could figure out how to express my emotions, she was broken and gone. She had waited long enough.
Now I just have all this love. And idk what to do with it.
So I guess you can have some.
I was going through a rough patch a few years ago and came up with a saying to comfort myself. ‘My goodness is not suspect’, I repeated it like a mantra until the negative stuff stuff would subside, did it everywhere biking, walking, meditating etc.
You are none of those things. Don’t give into the dark.
i love you!!! i hope u feel better soon 💕
Your brain is lying to you that you are uncapable of being loved. As a formerly suicidal mess, I can attest that often the worst critic is our own unregulated emotions and chemicals. Please hear this. I haven’t even met you and I love you. That’s not a statement from an unconsidered philosophy or a comment I wrote in 10 seconds. I spent 15 minutes of my life writing this, for you. Your life is worth living and you are worthy of a life that is thriving and happy. If you aren’t feeling that, don’t be afraid to reach out for help.
With all the love I can send you psychically and virtually,
your friend.
You are amazing and I love you.
Okay, but really, my brain is an asshole to me, too, friend. I see you. I hear you. I love you, and cherish your presence in the world. Take care.
You do deserve love and are absolutely not worthless, no one truly is as we all have our path in life that will benefit ourselves and others in ways we can’t predict yet.
But as advice you shouldn’t seek this affirmation from reddit, this is an easy way to have some weirdo try to take advantage of you so be careful about that
I promise you are worth something. even if you don’t feel valued there are people out there who find value in you, the fact that this many strangers care is proof of that. you’re loved. you’re as precious as any soul
You are safe. You are loved. You are wise.
Mr Kaplan’s words to Elizabeth Keen when she was a baby (TV show The Blacklist)
I love you as I love every being on this planet.
Every person who is born of this Earth, this divine universe and beyond, is worthy of love, and you are no different.
Every child who is born is born with the greatest potential to add something truly great to existence, and you have yet to fulfill that potential, but it will come regardless.
Whether you believe in something higher or not, you must truly believe in yourself and love yourself because you are a part of something so much greater, and without you, we could not have it the way it is.
Every moment you have spent here, for better or for worse, is a lesson for you and everyone you interact with. And know one truth, no matter how you may feel, you will never truly know the impact you have on any person’s life. You could have just easily waved hello at someone on the street, and that could be a memory they cherish forever and be the catalyst that reshapes their life into something beautiful.
You have a power that lies within you that will influence things in ways you have yet to see, and it is at the precipice of your grasp once you embrace the love the universe has for you.
I have always said that not all those who stumble and feel hurt are forever fallen. They just need a push back onto the path to achieve their greatness.
I love you, random Stranger, and may the blessings of the beyond give you the greatest peace you could ever know and the heart to carry on.
Is therapy an option?
You’re not worthless and you’re not garbage. The world is a better place because you are here. I love you my friend
Here for you. I know the feeling of self hatred & deception. Be as kind to yourself as you can. I know that is a puny statement but it goes a far way. Much love. We got you
I don’t know you, but no one deserves to live a life of self-loathing.
You are important. You have value. You matter.
And I love you.
Hey, wanna talk in DM and let everything out? I would love to hear everything that you want to share with me.
I love you so much ♥️ I mean it 🙂
Love ya, Lil buddy
Alright, since most humans in the chat did what you asked (barring a few worthless pos who just can’t give anything positive to the world)
Here’s a breakdown of what has happened so far:
1: people told you they loved you. I can assure you, when i see a post like this, it reminds me of a past of my own and i just wish i could give that person infinite hugs. Really.
2: someone suggested therapy, because it is one way that can solve certain issues that you may or may not believe you are going through. They care.
3: someone was rude. They were downvoted/content removed by others. Everyone cares.
4: you are alive. You want to live, and i can guarantee that just because you actually asked to be loved. Deep down you know you can be, and deserve, some love too. Also, you knew you would get it here without judgement. You care.
5: maybe you have explored every other avenue, or maybe you’re too scared to check another box off your list. But hey, you just need one place, right? So why not keep trying.
There was this saying, The value of water, ask that traveler stranded in the desert. For they value it as much as life itself.
You deserve love and I’m sure you will give it back a million folds once received.
Anyway, let me finish my rant by saying I love you. Again, infinite hugs! Goodbye to the day that passed, welcome to the day that approaches.
I love you. I know how it feels.
I love you. I’m sorry that everything that’s been happening has been happening and I truly do hope that it gets better for you. If you want to talk privately I’m almost always available. I’ll try my best (although my answers tend to be kind of dry)
I love you. It’s always darkest before the dawn. Your worth is there, even if you can’t see it from here.
Go drink a big glass of water and then go stand in the sun. 20 minutes three times a week. It’s better if you can have your bare feet on the ground too. Please. For me. Because I love you.
I love you uwu
OP,
I love you because you live.
That means you have begrudgingly decided to live. I know it’s sometimes hard to do the simple things like making food, taking showers and sleeping an appropriate amount of time for your body to rest. I know it’s a privilege to have any free time the poorer you are and to be surrounded by those who love you back. Unfortunately, happiness comes from within. Medicine or therapy but the main force is you. I’m not advocating that you should be happy, I’m only acknowledging the struggle. If you’re disabled/disfigured, traumatized by evil people, ugly by unrealistic social standards, it’s not crazy to think it’s damn near impossible to smile. If you have been given a finite time then I have no words to express the sorrow. At least know that you, I and everyone deserves love. It is one of the things in life that feels limitless. Love thyself so you can love others. A loveless soul is as strong as a black hole but the only force that will wither it down will start from self-love. And it’s not a one time thing. You cannot just be aware of the things you should be happy about or things that will make you happy. You need that awareness and more. It’s a constant battle that needs to be done step by step. It has to turn into a habit.
Just don’t give up on yourself dammit . Not as long as you got breath in your lungs.
And my axe…love
Sometimes the tide is high, sometimes low. Keep your sails high, you are loved.
I love you.
Just so you know. Actual worthless pieces of garbage rarely think they are. So the fact that you think you are, means you probably aren’t.
I don’t know what causes your suffering, but someone is hoping to find someone like you. Yes, even with your faults. Your smile may be like a very dim starlight, but it can be someone’s sun. All you need is action. it’s natural to feel scared, but it’s necessary to do it even if you are
Hey, OP, I love you. I hope you know that I think you’re worth everything even when you don’t. I think you matter, I know you matter, and I know that you’re your worth any and everything and then some.
I love you, random stranger. ♥️
You are loved. From one lonely soul to another…I promise you, there is still light and love and laughter and nice moments coming your way. There will be hugs, and fun meals, and ice cream, and music, and books, and cute animals, and a life in color.
You are loved and you are in the thoughts of many many internet strangers tonight, and we care.