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It’s not actually that bad. She’s really just noticing his habits/quirks and then responding to them in a positive way. This is just kind of actual human interaction.
It wouldn’t be weird at all if she left out all the dog comparisons.
I’m very torn over this. Clearly her intentions are pure, and could actually benefit him significantly. But these types of skills in the wrong hands would be disastrous. Imagine the power OP would have over him… OP should tread lightly because the line between helping and manipulating is very thin
I’ve honestly used a lot of the general ideas and skills I picked up from dog training in my interactions with people and it totally helps lol. But that probably says now about me and how it helps me think things thru and make boundaries. But sometimes I feel guilty still lol
“I can fix him” mentality. You can’t train a man like a dog wtf. He’s his own person, not your person. You can’t form him to fit you better simply because he’s pretty. Wtf is wrong with you
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Wasn’t this a plot in The Big Bang Theory? Lol
So… I’m not against this. She’s realized that he’s been traumatized and is trying her best to make him feel safe with her. I get it.
She has a particular set of skills….. Fair play really.
I wish I had someone who could train me to feel safer around people
It’s not actually that bad. She’s really just noticing his habits/quirks and then responding to them in a positive way. This is just kind of actual human interaction.
It wouldn’t be weird at all if she left out all the dog comparisons.
I feel like this will divide the Internet like the yanny/laurel thing
I think it was read? No?
I’m very torn over this. Clearly her intentions are pure, and could actually benefit him significantly. But these types of skills in the wrong hands would be disastrous. Imagine the power OP would have over him… OP should tread lightly because the line between helping and manipulating is very thin
Conditioning is conditioning.
What she’s doing is building trust. The way she’s doing it is working and he’s responding positively.
I see nothing wrong with this.
This is actually pretty impressive.
I’ve honestly used a lot of the general ideas and skills I picked up from dog training in my interactions with people and it totally helps lol. But that probably says now about me and how it helps me think things thru and make boundaries. But sometimes I feel guilty still lol
“I can fix him” mentality. You can’t train a man like a dog wtf. He’s his own person, not your person. You can’t form him to fit you better simply because he’s pretty. Wtf is wrong with you
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