So this happened last night and I’m still a little confused and angry. Last night, my friend invited me to a party with him, The party was a joint birthday party for a girl and a guy. My friend was friends with the birthday boy, and he said I could come even though I don’t know these people, so this wasn’t my usual group of friends. The friend I came here with spent this whole story off with some girl. Leaving me by myself.
I was also spending the night at my friends house so I had to bring my backpack with me. I was dancing and having fun when I felt something and turned around and this girl was holding my eyedrops she took from my backpack. She then started trying to apologize, saying it’s a “party trick” she does where she doesn’t steal anything, just moves stuff around to different pockets.
I was already annoyed because who goes through someone’s bag they don’t know? So I started checking my backpack for all my stuff, and she looks at me and says, “I already said I didn’t take your stuff” She also pointed out her outfit was a tube top with no bra and pants without pockets so where would she even put my stuff.
Anyways later on in the night I was looking for my ZYNs in my bag and couldn’t find them, so of course I come up and confront her for stealing them, she was pretty drunk and obviously not taking me seriously, but she says she didn’t take them, she just put them in the other pocket of my bag pack, I tell her I looked and couldn’t find them, she then yanked my bag pack from me, open a different pocket and pulled them out
I told her this shit wasn’t funny, and she called me a pussy and told me to get some sense of humor, at this point other guys from the party see what’s happening, but none of them were taking me seriously, they kept saying I was accusing her of stealing cause I was hitting on her and wanted to see her naked.
She then asked why I would even bring a backpack to a party and started calling me Dora the Explorer, and a bunch of guys joined in singing the Dora song, these guys still think I’m trying to hit on her so their like jokingly talking me up to her saying I’m tall and have a big dick to which she says, “ If he’s 6 foot than I’m 5’11” and “no way he has a big dick guys with big dicks don’t act so insecure.” At this point I’m really mad so I start cussing her out and calling her a thief.
These guys who were laughing a second ago, then started calling me crazy and saying I couldn’t curse her out and threatening me, they then told me I had to leave, I was so done with this I told all of them to fuck off and left without my friend. My friend is mad at me now because he said he’s embarrassed to have brought me and the whole group is saying I’m a creep.
I just feel confused, what if the roles were reversed and I was a random guy going through a girls bag? Also I feel like no body took me seriously, she didn’t steal anything but what if she did? She was a really hot girl, so of course all the guys took her side instead of mine.
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Mate, most people learn at a young age; never go to a “friend of a friend’s” party. Unless the host has directly invited you, it’s just bad manners.
You also need to invest in better friends. Basically, your mate wanted to go to a party, but had also committed to hanging out with you. He clearly values the party more than your friendship. He then abandoned you at a party that you weren’t invited to. He is the very embodiment of a shit friend.
And turning up to a party with luggage is weird. Your alleged friend could have at least made it so you could leave the backpack at his house first.