I (33F) am online dating. I matched with someone (3?M) a couple weeks ago and I let the conversation fizzle out because I didn’t feel any interest. Anyway, he reached out again today and I looked at his profile to refresh my memory of what he looked like. He must have updated some of his profile photos since we first matched because to my surprise I saw a shirtless photo of him which I know I did not see before; what was surprising what not that he was shirtless, but that he has “Fuck You?” (yes, with a “?”) in size 40 text tattooed on his chest. The tattoo is wide enough that it starts at one nipple and ends at the other.
For me, it was an immediate ick. I could not take someone seriously with such a tattoo and I definitely would not want to look at it during sex, especially during missionary.
I thought I’d ask you gals just for fun what your response/reaction/feelings/thoughts about it are.
EDIT: I’m glad a few people got a chuckle out of “size 40 text”, haha!