Couldn’t possibly eat more than me?

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So as a background my nmom eats like a bird and makes it very obvious how disgusted she is when I eat because I eat more than her. Whenever we eat food at a restaurant or to go all of my friends and husband make fun of her because we predict she will say “this is for one person?” “Next time we should share.” ” I could only eat a third of this”… Anyways, extremely fat-phobic… You get the idea.. I’m overweight but not by a lot and believe me she mentions it…

So, I made some scones for a ladies tea with my friends and I send her a picture… She said “save some for me” and I said ” I froze some already so you can bring some home next time you come by” and I was going to post a picture of the texts but it doesn’t give me the option so I’ll just write what the text said:

My nmom: They look big, you could always cut them in half.

Me: We did thirds.

My nmom: Then I might eat a quarter😁

She’s literally competing with me for how much less scone she’s going to eat… My husband said well in her eyes you’re fat so if she eats a third then she will be fat. Narcissists are so freaking sick…

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  2. IllustriousSugar1914 Avatar

    These people are all cut from the same fucked up cloth. You’re perfect. And I’ll have the whole scone please!