I have some ED issues that I am working on with my wife, in the meantime we have discovered the pleasure of my going down on her and making her come is such a jolt of excitement and pleasure for me too.
20-30 minutes down there is the minimum.. 69 is some work but oh boy it is a thrill..
i feel like the only person who doesnt give a shit ab oral and just wants to get to clapping , i like giving but receiving i dont really care for it ngl
Love getting my knob slobbered on but nothing drives me crazier than sucking on a woman’s clit and have her squirm around with my head locked between her legs 😩
I love giving my wife oral. I get off to seeing her squirm and hearing her moans build up until she finishes. And don’t get me wrong I love receiving too but giving is so much more fun
Yep. Her fingers in my hair and her thighs keeping my ears warm… nothing better. I do love getting head, but finding a woman talented at it is surprisingly difficult. Most seem to think it’s just bobbing up and down like in porn. No other stimulation at all.
Yes. I feel like I take too long to get there, so to speak, when I’m receiving. When it takes me a long time, my performance anxiety starts to kick in.
I love giving more than receiving. There are so many dudes that swear they’ve never gotten a good blow job and I love being the one to finally give them one. Not bragging. It’s legit not hard to do lol I think a lot of people are just selfish and lazy.
This is a tough one. I love to suck cock and I love the ability to make a guy cum in my mouth, and see the pleasure they get. Buttttttt there is nothing better than having a soft tongue on my clit flicking about, it gives me the strongest orgasm. If I had a gun to my head and had to choose, id choose sucking cock because I just cannot get enough
I am a female and would happily give oral to my partner 100%. I do not like receiving so would be perfectly happy for him to give me oral 0% of the time. EDIT: now you got me excited thinking about him
Yes.
People always think the giver is in the submissive role, but as the giver you have someone’s pleasure at completely in your control.
Plus I love the sensuality of it. I prefer oral and foreplay to actual sex. My partners pleasure is my complete focus.
Woman here. Happy to give, not a fan of receiving.
For me, the majority of pleasure from sex is feeling my partner’s body next to mine, touching each other, hearing his breath, seeing the lust in his face… When I’m receiving oral, there’s none of that. I’m just left staring into the ceiling and something is going on down there. Feels too much like masturbation – and I can do a better job of that by myself.
I’m a guy who is well endowed, and my wife has very severe anxiety around throwing up, if she sees someone else throw up it legit sends her into an intense panic attack, so gagging or coming close to gagging is very scary for her. All that to say only about 25% of it gets any real attention from a bj. She doesn’t mind doing it but it’s just not my favorite thing, I much prefer giving her oral and she much prefers that too so it works out haha. Actual penetration is way more pleasant for me than a bj
I enjoy giving more just because I know I’m good at it and I love watching my partner cum just from my tongue and hearing them scream and wiggle around
I did for a long time. I’d love going down on a woman but was very self conscious about a woman going down on me. It wasn’t about size or anything like that, but I think it was a vulnerability thing and not taking pleasure in receiving vs giving. Also had some experiences where the giver didn’t seem to enjoy it. Married now and love when my partner goes down on me much more equally.
When the cock is beautiful and nicely thick to me, you can’t keep me from wrapping my lips around until I feel accomplished swallowing every last drop. 🙈
Wow this is really interesting. I had experiences that were not so generous initially and it made it a challenge to be on the receiving end. I just assumed the other party was doing it out of obligation so it was impossible to get into it.
yesss i love the feeling of his hands on my head pushing it down, deepthroating.. haha. and also when he’s about to finish and becomes sort of desperate
but receiving? nah im good idk why haha
Definitely prefer giving. I don’t know if it’s because of circumcision, psychology or both, but I’ve always had difficulty feeling anything on the receiving end, no matter how good she may be at it. I am endlessly baffled and disappointed at how often women have told me most straight guys don’t enjoy/won’t do this.
Definitely love giving more. Putting my man into a primal state of pleasure makes me feel so fucking sexy, but when I’m the one receiving I just don’t get that same satisfaction.
Definitely love giving more. Putting my man into a primal state of pleasure makes me feel so fucking sexy, but when I’m the one receiving I just don’t get that same satisfaction.
I do… With the right guy i could… Ya know… Like 6 times a day for however long it takes (only have been like this with 2 guys)
I dont like the vulnerability of receiving it makes me uncomfortable. Ive only likes it 3 times . 2/3 times the dudes held me down and made me let them do it
I’d rather give it than recieve it,
Im a big competative girly so for me it often turns into feeling like I have a level of control on them when im the one giving it vs getting it.
It might just be my wife’s technique, but I like the idea of blowjobs more than the reality. However I love both the idea and reality of pussies so I’ll gladly lick one all day long.
Love giving and feel the squirming. Nothing better to keep going until they can’t handle anymore. Getting is good too. I wish this happened more often.
I enjoy getting another off.
I am a male, love to give her oral but actually hate to receive it. The feeling gets too intense for me. Like to that point where it’s like overstimulated torture in a matter of seconds and I can’t enjoy it anymore. I allowed it once recently and I was ashamed when I had to ask her to stop.
I did for an extremely long time until I got with my boyfriend, I’ve never been with anyone who wants to eat me out as much as he does. He’s the only guy who’s ever made me feel actually good about my vagina and how it’s looks.
I like receiving, but I love performing. I can not have a successful relationship with someone who does not enjoy receiving oral sex. If they don’t give it? I can work around that
I love having pussy in my face, the scent, the taste, the feeling of the lips in my mouth, everything.
I fantasise about it often. I want to eat it from behind at some point in the future. I have done it before but not in a long time. It’s a bit too freaky for a lot of women haha
Yesss! Nothing turns me on more than listening my partner moaning. Sex is more than the act, is getting the experience that you have the power to make another human being feel pleasure
My wife said it’s the thing I do best, and I do a lot of things very well. Thats enough to make me wanna do it all the time. Love receiving but I feel bad because it looks like so much hard work and takes so long.
As a man I am probably in the minority that I’d rather give oral than receiving. Most women I was with were not really into giving oral and that was a turn off for me.
I love giving. The aroma, the squirming, the hair pulling gives me so much pleasure. I could eat my gfs pussy for hours but she cums in 2 minutes and taps out 🙁
I’ve had to ration the oral to make sure we get some sexy time in before she finishes. It’s a delicate dance but I love the way she squirms for more when I stop before she cums!
Yes. I love going down on my Wife. I get pleasure from her pleasure. I make sure she gets “a few” in before I come up for sex.
I don’t dislike receiving, it’s just that I enjoy sex so much more. The intimacy, the feel, everything. My hands have to be touching her somewhere pleasurable. So just sort of laying there isn’t all that fun for me.
Now 69 I am all for. That’s the only time I really enjoy receiving.
I’m incredibly biased, since being eaten out sounds super fun and I imagine it feels great when done properly! But no one has ever seemed to know what they’re doing down there, so in comparison, I prefer giving.
But that’s not to say I don’t love giving head, because I do! It’s so hot and it gets me super wet, especially with some rough stuff added in! The more spit and tears, the better.
Love both. Current partner is amazing at oral and he loves it. He didn’t used to like to do it before me which is really flattering. I love giving as well, but he doesn’t typically finish that way which makes me sad.
Perhaps I’ve just not had good head (I’m male) but it’s not anything that great… so I prefer to give it because women can be more easily stimulated if you know what you’re doing
Yup! I love going down on a girl but it takes me a long time to complete that way. I enjoy it but not the misery I put my significant other through. I would (and often) to it 10-20x as much as my partner and enjoy every moment of it.
My guy does A LOT for me and I like to reciprocate that with making him feel good. But I don’t like anyone getting face to face with MY parts. I get squeamish and uncomfortable just looking at it in the mirror.
Let’s say in some cases just listening to your partner’s moans of pleasure when you perform oral sex is enough to have a very good erection, so you no longer need your partner to give you oral sex and be able to penetrate without any problem.
I’m a dude, and as much as I like how good oral feels, it has NEVER gotten me off. I’ve never understood the fascination some a lot of guys seem to have with getting blowjobs.
I vastly prefer giving oral. I’ve been told by many I’m pretty good at it, but all I really do is listen, adjust, and check in periodically. It’s not rocket science.
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Yeah, the buzz I get from making my partner feel pleasure is greater than what I personally feel.
Yes. Receiving ain’t bad but I wanna eat that girl up with my lips
I love both. Preferably at the same time 😉👌🏼
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Love giving, tolerate receiving. He’s so good but im not into it like he is
Yep I’d give a female head all night long if I could I love sucking on a pussy
Like giving more than receiving many guys are not that great at giving. But I can great a mean blowjob when I’m in the zone 🙂
Yes! lol
How’s that song go: “ I eat the pussy like it’s Oreos”? That’s me.
Yes, I’d rather a muff or a cock in my mouth than anyone putting their lips on mine.
I have some ED issues that I am working on with my wife, in the meantime we have discovered the pleasure of my going down on her and making her come is such a jolt of excitement and pleasure for me too.
20-30 minutes down there is the minimum.. 69 is some work but oh boy it is a thrill..
i feel like the only person who doesnt give a shit ab oral and just wants to get to clapping , i like giving but receiving i dont really care for it ngl
Yeah I still fucking love receiving. But I have skills that need to be put to use!
Yep.
Never been a huge fan of oral, I actually prefer I don’t receive it.
Happy to give though, I love making him feel good.
Love getting my knob slobbered on but nothing drives me crazier than sucking on a woman’s clit and have her squirm around with my head locked between her legs 😩
I love giving my wife oral. I get off to seeing her squirm and hearing her moans build up until she finishes. And don’t get me wrong I love receiving too but giving is so much more fun
Yep. Her fingers in my hair and her thighs keeping my ears warm… nothing better. I do love getting head, but finding a woman talented at it is surprisingly difficult. Most seem to think it’s just bobbing up and down like in porn. No other stimulation at all.
Yeah i like it ngl
Love both but I love going down a little more
Yes. I feel like I take too long to get there, so to speak, when I’m receiving. When it takes me a long time, my performance anxiety starts to kick in.
Giving and receiving at the same time is the best! Love making sure wife cums when I’m eating her out
Giving over receiving all day everyday 😁
i do
Yes. The taste/smell of a woman when she’s wet is absolutely euphoric
I enjoy doing it as much as recieving it.
OOH OOH OHH MEMEMEMEMEMEE
I love giving more than receiving. There are so many dudes that swear they’ve never gotten a good blow job and I love being the one to finally give them one. Not bragging. It’s legit not hard to do lol I think a lot of people are just selfish and lazy.
This is a tough one. I love to suck cock and I love the ability to make a guy cum in my mouth, and see the pleasure they get. Buttttttt there is nothing better than having a soft tongue on my clit flicking about, it gives me the strongest orgasm. If I had a gun to my head and had to choose, id choose sucking cock because I just cannot get enough
I totally love giving. And when they finish it feels like a nice reward 🤭
I got sucked maybe like thrice, i didn’t enjoy any of it.
I am a female and would happily give oral to my partner 100%. I do not like receiving so would be perfectly happy for him to give me oral 0% of the time. EDIT: now you got me excited thinking about him
I love going down on my wife so much more than getting a blow job.
Yes.
People always think the giver is in the submissive role, but as the giver you have someone’s pleasure at completely in your control.
Plus I love the sensuality of it. I prefer oral and foreplay to actual sex. My partners pleasure is my complete focus.
Woman here. Happy to give, not a fan of receiving.
For me, the majority of pleasure from sex is feeling my partner’s body next to mine, touching each other, hearing his breath, seeing the lust in his face… When I’m receiving oral, there’s none of that. I’m just left staring into the ceiling and something is going on down there. Feels too much like masturbation – and I can do a better job of that by myself.
I’m a black belt in tongue fu it’s my pleasure 🙂
I adore giving head. It’s pure sensory bliss to me.
My wife was giving me hell one day and said “ Damn you would rather eat P%##y than give me a back rub?!?!” I was like yeah
I only prefer giving. Never understood why
Love giving
I’d go down on my wife daily if I could, if also take oral daily, wouldn’t that be nice
I love giving and tolerate receiving. Receiving oral isn’t a bad experience, but I get much more enjoyment out of giving.
I’m a guy who is well endowed, and my wife has very severe anxiety around throwing up, if she sees someone else throw up it legit sends her into an intense panic attack, so gagging or coming close to gagging is very scary for her. All that to say only about 25% of it gets any real attention from a bj. She doesn’t mind doing it but it’s just not my favorite thing, I much prefer giving her oral and she much prefers that too so it works out haha. Actual penetration is way more pleasant for me than a bj
I enjoy giving more just because I know I’m good at it and I love watching my partner cum just from my tongue and hearing them scream and wiggle around
I did for a long time. I’d love going down on a woman but was very self conscious about a woman going down on me. It wasn’t about size or anything like that, but I think it was a vulnerability thing and not taking pleasure in receiving vs giving. Also had some experiences where the giver didn’t seem to enjoy it. Married now and love when my partner goes down on me much more equally.
When the cock is beautiful and nicely thick to me, you can’t keep me from wrapping my lips around until I feel accomplished swallowing every last drop. 🙈
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Wow this is really interesting. I had experiences that were not so generous initially and it made it a challenge to be on the receiving end. I just assumed the other party was doing it out of obligation so it was impossible to get into it.
yesss i love the feeling of his hands on my head pushing it down, deepthroating.. haha. and also when he’s about to finish and becomes sort of desperate
but receiving? nah im good idk why haha
Yep that’s me. I like to go down on my partner. I actually don’t mind if she doesn’t
Hell yeah. Om nom nom
there’s something about eating pussy that just makes me rock hard.
Me
69 bruh 😎
That’s me! It hurts to receive but I love giving.
Definitely prefer giving. I don’t know if it’s because of circumcision, psychology or both, but I’ve always had difficulty feeling anything on the receiving end, no matter how good she may be at it. I am endlessly baffled and disappointed at how often women have told me most straight guys don’t enjoy/won’t do this.
Definitely love giving more. Putting my man into a primal state of pleasure makes me feel so fucking sexy, but when I’m the one receiving I just don’t get that same satisfaction.
my wife loves it more than I do. so it’s I giving her but we generally skip me receiving it
Funny you ask… used to be team receiving…then I discovered giving hits different. It’s the reactions for me.
Definitely love giving more. Putting my man into a primal state of pleasure makes me feel so fucking sexy, but when I’m the one receiving I just don’t get that same satisfaction.
Not me
It’s close to a tie, but if given the choice, I’d rather give.
Love going down on my wife
Love going down on my wife.
Yeh, honestly recieving has never done much for me tbh
Love going down on my wife.
Both
Me. It doesn’t do as much for me as giving does
It’s a mood thing, sometimes you want to eat sometimes you wanted to be eaten
sigh I miss both…
Not sure if this is an invite or a question.
It’s one of the most hotly contested races in the house
It’s so fun to have my head on a lap watching a movie and just plop it in my mouth 😜
I do… With the right guy i could… Ya know… Like 6 times a day for however long it takes (only have been like this with 2 guys)
I dont like the vulnerability of receiving it makes me uncomfortable. Ive only likes it 3 times . 2/3 times the dudes held me down and made me let them do it
(it was my ex husband and a boyfriend after him)
I like recieving more but I also enjoy giving
Must have an oral fixation as I’ll always offer to give over receive 🤭
My boyfriend, luckily for me hahaha 😎
I’d rather give it than recieve it,
Im a big competative girly so for me it often turns into feeling like I have a level of control on them when im the one giving it vs getting it.
Stfu
Giving oral is my favorite part tbh
Yes… i prefer pleasuring a woman then receiving… was never a BJ fan tbh…don’t know why…
If she’s doing it, i better return the favor
I like them both!
But yes, a thousand times I prefer a girl to give me oral and cum haha
Depends. Some are not so good at giving.
As someone who loves giving more than receiving Was giving yesterday and at one point he just moaned “god that feels great” made me very happy.
It might just be my wife’s technique, but I like the idea of blowjobs more than the reality. However I love both the idea and reality of pussies so I’ll gladly lick one all day long.
Love giving and feel the squirming. Nothing better to keep going until they can’t handle anymore. Getting is good too. I wish this happened more often.
I enjoy getting another off.
I loooooove going down on women. Seeing them squirm, moan and cum fills me with so much satisfaction.
I am a male, love to give her oral but actually hate to receive it. The feeling gets too intense for me. Like to that point where it’s like overstimulated torture in a matter of seconds and I can’t enjoy it anymore. I allowed it once recently and I was ashamed when I had to ask her to stop.
I prefer to give when she doesn’t know how I like my glug glug. However when they know how to deliver it’s about 50/50.
I did for an extremely long time until I got with my boyfriend, I’ve never been with anyone who wants to eat me out as much as he does. He’s the only guy who’s ever made me feel actually good about my vagina and how it’s looks.
Dislike both.
I love both equally and get off to both equally. But I miss giving oral more than I miss receiving it if I’ve had to go without.
I love going down on women, its so fun and when you can feel them enjoying it, you get so turned on its wild.
I’ll go down on my fiancé as often and as long as she wants. I rarely, if ever, am on the receiving end from her.
I like receiving, but I love performing. I can not have a successful relationship with someone who does not enjoy receiving oral sex. If they don’t give it? I can work around that
I love giving it and although I appreciate receiving it there are many things I would prefer… such as giving it.
I once had a post blow up for mentioning how much I love going down on women and how my favourite choir is doing dishes.
Me! I don’t really like having my dick sucked but I love doing it on my gf
I slightly prefer giving.
I love having pussy in my face, the scent, the taste, the feeling of the lips in my mouth, everything.
I fantasise about it often. I want to eat it from behind at some point in the future. I have done it before but not in a long time. It’s a bit too freaky for a lot of women haha
Yesss! Nothing turns me on more than listening my partner moaning. Sex is more than the act, is getting the experience that you have the power to make another human being feel pleasure
My wife said it’s the thing I do best, and I do a lot of things very well. Thats enough to make me wanna do it all the time. Love receiving but I feel bad because it looks like so much hard work and takes so long.
I’ll let you know when I’m in the receiving end.
always a giver… receiving is just a bonus…
As a man I am probably in the minority that I’d rather give oral than receiving. Most women I was with were not really into giving oral and that was a turn off for me.
I love giving it but it’s pretty much because it means I end up getting it. And I love it.
What was the question again?
I love going down on a woman. I would do everyday if I was allowed to
I love eating some pussy. Especially when she fresh out of the shower.
I definitely did.
Meee
Here
70/30 give/receive. I like to please 🤷🏻♂️
I’m bisexual so to me it depends on who I’m having sex with
I do, as a woman.
I love giving. The aroma, the squirming, the hair pulling gives me so much pleasure. I could eat my gfs pussy for hours but she cums in 2 minutes and taps out 🙁
I’ve had to ration the oral to make sure we get some sexy time in before she finishes. It’s a delicate dance but I love the way she squirms for more when I stop before she cums!
Receiving BJs I live without but I like giving oral to my wife. She just doesn’t like it so I don’t get practice and thus suck at it.
Of course I know him, he’s me!
Yes. I love going down on my Wife. I get pleasure from her pleasure. I make sure she gets “a few” in before I come up for sex.
I don’t dislike receiving, it’s just that I enjoy sex so much more. The intimacy, the feel, everything. My hands have to be touching her somewhere pleasurable. So just sort of laying there isn’t all that fun for me.
Now 69 I am all for. That’s the only time I really enjoy receiving.
I don’t like people near me, but I’ll go near them.
I’m incredibly biased, since being eaten out sounds super fun and I imagine it feels great when done properly! But no one has ever seemed to know what they’re doing down there, so in comparison, I prefer giving.
But that’s not to say I don’t love giving head, because I do! It’s so hot and it gets me super wet, especially with some rough stuff added in! The more spit and tears, the better.
Yeeeah I like seeing the reaction I get way more then recieving 👌
Receivinggggggg or 69🥰
I much rather give than receiving
Have always prefered to give and not receive. He’s good at it but I’ve never cared for it.
Catching? Not pitching?
Love both. Current partner is amazing at oral and he loves it. He didn’t used to like to do it before me which is really flattering. I love giving as well, but he doesn’t typically finish that way which makes me sad.
Perhaps I’ve just not had good head (I’m male) but it’s not anything that great… so I prefer to give it because women can be more easily stimulated if you know what you’re doing
Yup! I love going down on a girl but it takes me a long time to complete that way. I enjoy it but not the misery I put my significant other through. I would (and often) to it 10-20x as much as my partner and enjoy every moment of it.
My guy does A LOT for me and I like to reciprocate that with making him feel good. But I don’t like anyone getting face to face with MY parts. I get squeamish and uncomfortable just looking at it in the mirror.
Let’s say in some cases just listening to your partner’s moans of pleasure when you perform oral sex is enough to have a very good erection, so you no longer need your partner to give you oral sex and be able to penetrate without any problem.
Doesn’t do anything for me but I give it to my wife
Yes, both with dick n pussy
Gets me more aroused while doing it by becoming more in the moment cause I focus on their needs and slightest body language
Both are just…well, they’re both just swell.
Sucking my boyfriend’s dick makes me extremely horny
I’d rather give than receive. I like 69 too, though.
I like both.
I love giving it, my wife doesn’t want it very often though. I told her I would do it for her every night if she would let me
Right here, baby 1000% I am a sucker for 🐱🐱😺
I absolutely love giving my girlfriend oral.
I like giving to my wife but I really hate receiving. I just don’t want it and have never wanted or liked it.
I like the power to make her squirm. It’s like a toy lmao
Yes, I’ve been wary of teeth since the first time. Then there’s the plus of the woman’s thighs firmly clamping your ears in place as she climaxes.
I’d take giving over receiving any day. Current gal doesn’t like it. Breaks my heart.
Way prefer giving to receiving.
I’m a dude, and as much as I like how good oral feels, it has NEVER gotten me off. I’ve never understood the fascination
somea lot of guys seem to have with getting blowjobs.I vastly prefer giving oral. I’ve been told by many I’m pretty good at it, but all I really do is listen, adjust, and check in periodically. It’s not rocket science.
I prefer receiving from girls and giving to guys