DAE feel like you’re tolerated rather than loved?

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DAE feel like you’re tolerated rather than loved?

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  1. Infinitum_pax Avatar

    Big time and it’s draining.

  2. SilverB33 Avatar

    Often due to my ADHD, which is why I had to leave several online groups since i ended up overstaying my welcome with them.

  3. crazyt2021 Avatar

    Yep do I ever! Riding shotgun earlier, chatting away (to myself apparently) and then just sad when conversation halts. Erm…you did me hear ask a general ice breaking lovely drive conversation initiating BREAK THE GOD DAMN BOREDOM CYCLE QUESSSSSTION RIGHT?! Oh, you didn’t? My bad. Yawn, looking out the window now looking forward to the next time we don’t chat. So happy to be loved and cared for /s.

  4. danmactough Avatar

    absolutely. hugs to my fellow… whatever you call us

  5. selinaxselina Avatar

    Try to read more about ROCD, maybe that helps

  6. _dvs1_ Avatar

    I was adopted, so yeah that’s an ongoing mental battle. Fuck that voice though, haven’t let him win yet.

  7. iammeallthetime Avatar

    ATM, yes.
    “That’s all I have to say about that.”
    For now.

  8. chlowhiteand_7dwarfs Avatar

    Yes until I met my husband.

    But it is good to know that even when we feel this way, God loves us all.

  9. berrylovebugs Avatar

    Oh yeah all the time

  10. alwaysdreaming0403 Avatar

    with me having borderline personality disorder…yes. very much so. all the time.

  11. Rich_Ad8328 Avatar

    Every single day of my entire life. And it’s not really a feeling it’s a fact. My mother and brother love to stress to me how insufferable and awful i am, while displaying horrid behaviors towards me🥴

  12. ybreddit Avatar

    I feel like my friends love me as much as I love them. I feel like an obstacle to the men that date me.

  13. bokehtoast Avatar

    Until covid when people had an excuse not to tolerate me anymore either 

  14. AlwaysOpenToLearn Avatar

    All the time. One year, I just canceled my birthday because only maaaybe two people seemed mildly interested, and it wasn’t worth the effort at that point. I message my friends all the time and I actually have a counter for how many times they’ve messaged me of their own accord because it’s so little. To be fair, most of them are also adhd, but still. It just feels like nobody puts in the effort the way I do. I actually cried when one of my friends sent me a meme because it meant so much. It’s just those little things. I know I’m annoying af cause I talk all the time, and I get it, but it just sucks. Even with the friend I think actually likes me, I assume I’m just annoying her because that’s just been my experience for so long.