Basically, for the past few months, I have been having on and off conflict with my mom due to various reasons… like her always jumping to assumptions about me that DOESN’T make sense, commenting on my attitude, commenting on my bf and how I always get defensive of him, slamming the door (the door literally slams itself and when I tell her it isn’t on purpose she starts saying stuff like “oh so now it’s my fault?”). Like I seriously can’t stand it anymore…
My dad always tells me “everything starts from home” and if I can be kind and compassionate to others, why can’t I show the same compassion to them? I know that my attitude can be bad at times but my mom just doesn’t listen to what we have to say and it just compound things further.
Does anyone else face this problem of finding it hard to treat their family nicely and how can I solve this issue?