DAE get anxious that their “decaf coffee or latte” made by a barista is not actually decaf?

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I’ll often say it twice and one time I was like, “this is decaf, right?” and they said, “oh, wait, no, whoops!”

I’m just sensitive to caffeine and I usually start my day with English breakfast tea.

Comments

  1. ihearhistoryrhyming Avatar

    I hope this is a joke because English breakfast has a ton of caffeine, mate.

  2. RoyalRobinBanks Avatar

    I have to opposite worry, did I somehow offend them and they give me decaf.

  3. CrumpledResume Avatar

    I was a barista for two years. The amount of people that ordered decaf were next to none! It was very easy to press the same regular espresso button that we always press out of habit! Not saying it’s right, just making hundreds of the same drink every day gets robotic.

  4. iceunelle Avatar

    Yeah, I always double check. I struggle severely with insomnia and have my whole life. I’m also excruciatingly sensitive to caffeine; no matter how early in the day I drink caffeinated coffee, it will keep me up at night. Decaf or chocolate even keeps me up sometimes if I have it too late in the day. A simple mistake on the barista’s part will ruin the next day for me because I won’t sleep.

  5. quicksilver_foxheart Avatar

    Its okay to ask then! Just a quick, casual, polite, “this is decaf, right?” is perfectly understandable. Former barista and as someone with a ton of food sensitivities/health problems I totally understood people wanting to double check. I often do the same for my own peace of mind-sometimes, if you have that doubt already and then don’t get confirmation, it can grow and be distressing.

  6. exitpursuedbybear Avatar

    Happened to my wife, she asked for a decaf latte, must have been full caf she was up all night and had to go to work on no sleep.

  7. sfdsquid Avatar

    I’m more worried about getting soda that isn’t diet/zero when I order from restaurants or fast food, but I am avoiding sugar, not caffeine.

  8. Yourlilemogirl Avatar

    I don’t worry about caffeine but I do about sugar (diabetic). Never know the truth until I taste it and/or my sensor screams at me that I had sugar lol

  9. JCButtBuddy Avatar

    Just the opposite.

  10. Dandibear Avatar

    Yes, so I take a few small sips and then wait a bit. If I still feel okay, a few more sips. If I can’t feel my heart pounding by then, then it’s safe to finish.

  11. Pristine-Raisin-823 Avatar

    Decaf only means less caf. Starbucks decaf has more caffeine than regular Maxwell House brewed at home.

  12. manthepost Avatar

    Happened to a friend recently she told me she had just got off caffeine and was still having cravings and she couldn’t sleep that night cause the barista forgot she wanted decaf

  13. brilr98 Avatar

    english breakfast is a black tea and contains a lot of caffeine

  14. Dark_Akarin Avatar

    Yes, I can’t drink caffeine. I always ask, are you sure it’s decaf? About 5 times in a year I will be told “oops, let me remake it”. I hope they realise I can be hospitalised from the damn stuff and I will sue them into oblivion.

  15. plantsandpizza Avatar

    Okay – so here’s a breakdown of the caffeine contents in your drinks (based on 8oz)

    English breakfast- 40-70mg of caffeine (that’s going to depend on the tea but largely how long you steep it for aka removing the bag or loose leaf strainer)

    Regular Latte – 63-75mg of caffeine

    Regular drip coffee 95-125mg

    A decaf coffee can contain up to 10mg of caffeine.

    The average adult consumes 135-165mg of caffeine a day. You could almost be halfway to “average” just from your tea

    As someone who rarely consumes caffeine because I am super sensitive to it I can even feel the caffeine in a decaf coffee, I can especially feel it in a regular. Now I’m craving an iced coffee 🤣

    ETA – I made a caffeinated ice coffee and now I’m ready to take on the world

  16. Chicagogirl72 Avatar

    You can taste the difference

  17. griphookk Avatar

    If this happens they should remake it for free. You shouldn’t even have to ask them to remake it.

  18. rednosed94 Avatar

    Yes. In the evening, I used to get my coffee decaf. And I was screwed over multiple times. For frequent coffee drinkers, you could TOTALLY know if this coffee was decaf or not. The last time I ordered decaf, it actually wasn’t a decaf. So I paid for it and didn’t drink it. From that time, I stopped risking it. It wasn’t worth it. I’ll happily have my last coffee cup by 3PM and that was it.

  19. TheBubblewrappe Avatar

    No but I swear some places serve iced coffee instead of cold brew.

  20. cinnamon_oatie Avatar

    Why I don’t order diet coke in drive through where you can’t see them pour it.

  21. klaxz1 Avatar

    You’re allowed to ask questions

  22. Embracedandbelong Avatar

    I’m so sensitive that a decaf from Starbucks can keep me awake. I didn’t know until recently that their decaf has more caffeine than other places’ decaf

  23. SuchTarget2782 Avatar

    I can taste the difference so I don’t really have to have anxiety about that.

    I just have anxiety about walking into the store, ordering my coffee, having to interact with a barista, what if somebody tries to rob the store…

  24. SleekLaserCat Avatar

    Probably best to go to independent shops if you want no mistakes on a decaf. Source: been a barista at both chain and independent shop

  25. mudderofdogs Avatar

    Yes. Ruins my whole day if they get it wrong

  26. crowmagnuman Avatar

    Oh never. I’m incapable of anxiety until I’ve had my caffeine.

  27. DoctoreVodka Avatar

    Why would you even entertain the decaf option? Why? Have an Iced tea or a glass of anything else. Coffee is what it is. I don’t understand the decaffeinated angle. You’re soft, nothing else.

  28. Graceabounds6 Avatar

    I don’t get decaf out for this very reason. I feel like since most people are ordering regular they accidentally make it the drink with regular instead of decaf. If I do get it i confirm that it’s decaf the barista when I receive it. I often make decaf at home… and then second guess that I accidentally grabbed the regular coffee lol.

  29. _KnickyKnack Avatar

    I actually stopped ordering coffee and tea completely because of this. I’m extremely sensitive to caffeine—can handle a small decaf drink, though, but the caffeine content in a regular coffee will leave me with severe tachycardia, panic attacks, dizziness, etc. I was always checking constantly. “Decaf, right? Regular will make me sick.”

    I still ended up getting regular caffeinated a few times. I was thankfully able to recognize it after only drinking a little some of the times it happened, so I was only sick for a few hours, but the last time was so bad. I guess shame on me for not giving it up after the first mishap, but I really wanted to believe people could do their job and give me what I ordered lol.

    I can still enjoy the drinks if made myself, but it’s a bummer I can’t just swing by a coffee shop while I’m out and about to get a treat.

  30. lady-earendil Avatar

    I’m both caffeine intolerant and also severely lactose intolerant, so I have to ask for mine decaf and with alternative milk. I mostly go to small local shops (so no drink tag on the cup) and if they don’t say both when calling out the drink order, I always double check. I’ve definitely had a few drinks remade because someone forgot but most of the time they’re good

  31. Ok_Bug_6470 Avatar

    It’s more like your reg coffee is decaf probably

  32. FeastingOnFelines Avatar

    FFS make your own coffee. ☕️

  33. W0RZ0NE Avatar

    Even decaf coffee gives me heart palpitations :/

  34. ____4444 Avatar

    100% and they’ve given me full caff every time
    so i can’t risk it i have to make it at home just the way i like it. mostly decaf with a splash or two of caffeinated coffee!

  35. DammSamm2817 Avatar

    I’m the same way. I’m also sensitive to caffeine, but I love coffee and tea. I used to go to Dunkin Donuts a lot and 9 out of 10 times I would ask for decaf coffee, when they went to hand it to me and I said “decaf, right?” they would turn around, dump it out, and make it again

  36. Queenofwands1212 Avatar

    Yes. Every single time I am convinced they didn’t make it decaf. Because I was a barista for years and I know how often baristas fuck up because they get a decaf order to make

  37. xxdinolaurrrxx Avatar

    Omg all the time

  38. OldCompany50 Avatar

    No, ridiculous

    Be more concerned your barista didn’t wash their hands

    Caffeine won’t hurt you

  39. allcars4me Avatar

    I used to tend bar at a luxury hotel. If a group ordered some decaf coffee drinks and some regular, everyone got decaf. We don’t want to risk giving someone caffeine that didn’t want it.

  40. Olioliooo Avatar

    Even coffee that’s sold as decaf can have caffeine in it, but the barista won’t necessarily know

  41. bittersweet505 Avatar

    Hell yeah I’m lactose intolerant and I get sooo anxious that I accidentally get cow milk instead of a milk alternative. After I’m done ordering, when they ask “is there anything else I can get for you?” I always say “No but please make sure it’s oatmilk because I’m lactose intolerant”. Never had an issue. I’m sure if you said something like “Please make sure it’s decaf, I’m sensitive to caffeine” in a polite and nice manner that people will make the effort to not give you the wrong thing. I don’t think asking once you receive it would be annoying either. People make mistakes

  42. Tasty-Bee8769 Avatar

    I have to do the same but with non lactose milk. There’s nothing wrong by asking

  43. _FreddieLovesDelilah Avatar

    There is caffeine in tea btw.