DAE love friends and family but feel completely content with going extended periods without seeing them?

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Like I love my friend to death but I don’t really miss her , ever ? I feel guilty but I don’t really want to see her . Is this normal? I haven’t seen her in awhile but ugh the thought of hanging out I’m like nooooo. But I love her fully. Same goes with my family . I could probably go a year without seeing any of them?

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  1. Oneofthedeadlysins Avatar

    I feel the exact same way! I can go months and months without seeing or even texting my best friend. I care about her very much of course. I think we see each other twice a year. Thankfully she’s never held this against me lol. I rarely speak to my siblings (ik i could go years without talking to them if they wouldn’t get offended ) but we have a decent relationship. I never miss people…i wasn’t sure if others felt the same. The only person I’ve ever missed was my bf. I dont think it makes us bad people tho!! Just have to respect if others do want to see you more often. If my friend wanted to hang out more often but i didnt, i would try to find a middle ground.