Daughter hurt and relationship spiraling

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Trigger: self harm, impacts of such

A week and a half ago, my (40’s f) tween daughter attempted ending her time on this mortal coil. I spent the next week constantly at the inpatient facility, while my husband was unavoidably out of town for work. I dealt with it, as she is not his biological daughter. My child, my responsibility, but at the same time.. I struggled. He finally came home, and despite my exhaustion and stress, he chose to work overtime this weekend, in order to catch up from being out of town for work.

Am I overreacting for feeling upset? I mean, yes, work is important. He brings home 3x my salary, but between my work and child support I pay for all of my children’s expenses. The house is mine from before marriage. I just feel incredibly hurt and disregarded. I’m not sure where to go from here.

Tl;dr
Daughter SH. Husband checked out and focused on work