Defining the terms in the typical masculinity way: are you a “soft” or a “hard” guy? Which do you prefer to be, and if those are different why?

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1. 

   jericho

   April 1, 2025

   You don’t get to put my manhood in a box. I’m rich, I’m big, broad and bold. 

   And then I’m not. I’m vulnerable, I’m weak. 

   Let’s live. 

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   Phillimon

   April 1, 2025

   A good man knows when to be the stoic “hard” masculine man and when to be the emotionally available “soft” masculine guy.

   I will handle a crisis with the stone cold face of a stoic. Then afterwards I’ll emotionally check on my loved ones and be there for them.