Im 16, female and I met this boy in January . He’s an hour from me and at first seemed super nice but was love bombing me ALL the time. We talked and stuff and I found out things like how his childhood was rough , his mom was not there for him and abused him then his step father passed away unfortunately. I feel bad ofc but he kinda used it an excuse as to why he did many drugs . He smoked a lot of carts and nic he had insane crash outs about small things and honestly scared me . He at one point talked about marrying me. He has many guns idk why or what for . He lives w his single father and his father supplies him w all that stuff … he dropped out and works at fast food. He’s very experienced.. I am not at all . I was recently contemplating breaking up w him because of everything and his actions and how I’d never want to see him or be w him face to face let alone spend my life w him . Today I was just so done w his issues and actions I honestly felt like he was holding me back . He has no car no funds no anything and he just annoyed me so much this week and just now we broke up . I’m scared he’ll come harm me one day cs he has anger issues. I broke up by telling him im not with anything he does or is doing and im not waiting for anyone at my age . I’m studious , pure , young , and educated. Why would I risk it because you texted me and was nice to me 24/7 ?
TL:DR
Today I broke up with a boy I’ve known since January , he gave me weird vibes since the start . Overall had many problems mentally and thought too grown for me . Broke up by telling him I didn’t like his actions and he’s got very upset and honestly I feel partly guilty.