Did you you ever talk to your mom about her needing to take better care of herself? How did that conversation go? Did she take it seriously and actually do something about it or no? I spoke to mom about this several times and I don’t see her make any meaningful changes. She continues to complain about the same issues but doesn’t take the advice. It’s frustrating and this time I don’t think I was being nice about it. I just want her to stand up for herself and do something good for herself. I want her to eat better, good to the gym, dress better, sleep better. She just shows up for everyone else except herself.