My Mom is 89 and always knew her as a polite Christian woman when taking to friends, family members, church people and neighbors. The past few times I have seen her she has been more direct, very opinionated and quietly non compliant. I always thought of her as a ‘June Cleaver’.
Maybe too much TV!
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Has your mother been checked for a mini-stroke?
My mom is also 89 and never really had one, and it’s even worse now.
Older people losing their filter happens:
AI Overview
As people age, the frontal cortex, responsible for social filters and cognitive functions, can shrink, potentially leading to a loss of inhibitions and social cognition, though this isn’t a universal experience.
Here’s a more detailed explanation:
Frontal Cortex and its Functions:
The frontal cortex, particularly the prefrontal cortex, plays a crucial role in higher-level cognitive functions like planning, decision-making, working memory, and social behavior. It’s also involved in inhibiting impulses and maintaining social appropriateness.
Age-Related Changes:
With age, the brain naturally undergoes changes, including a reduction in volume, especially in the frontal lobes. This shrinkage can lead to a decline in cognitive abilities and social skills.
“Losing Your Filter”:
The term “losing your filter” refers to a decline in the ability to control impulses and social cues, potentially leading to saying things that are inappropriate or hurtful.
Not a Universal Phenomenon:
While age-related changes in the frontal cortex can contribute to a loss of social filters, it’s important to note that not all older adults experience this decline. Many older adults retain their cognitive abilities and social skills well into advanced age.
Other Factors:
Besides age-related changes, other factors can also contribute to a loss of social filters, such as brain injuries, strokes, or neurodegenerative conditions like frontotemporal dementia.
“Super Agers”:
Some individuals, known as “super agers,” demonstrate exceptional cognitive abilities and brain health even in advanced age, suggesting that brain plasticity and lifestyle factors can play a significant role in maintaining cognitive function.
Maintaining Cognitive Function:
There is increasing evidence that cognitive decline can be mitigated through various methods, such as physical exercise, cognitive training, and noninvasive brain stimulation.
Seeking Professional Advice:
If you or someone you know is experiencing a significant change in social behavior or cognitive abilities, it’s important to seek professional advice to rule out any underlying medical conditions.
Also what does your mom watch or listen to? My mom and stepdad got sucked into Fox News and my stepdad got really bad – mom got worse living with him. She’s softened back up a little since he died.
Dad did, his dementia removed all filters. Very embarrassing comments, nastiness. He was never warm and fuzzy so we expected it somewhat but still kinda shocked at what he would say
What does “Christian” mean in this context? I’m truly asking not being snarky.
Bold of you to assume my mother ever had a filter.