Do girls tell guys their hands are cold to get them to touch their hands?

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So I have this girl at my school and she was talking to me today and said her hands were cold and I responded with “oh I’m sorry about that.” Because I don’t know how to respond to that and she looked upset, then like a minute later she offered for me to feel, and when I did she cheered up, is she flirting or just being friendly? I can’t tell.

Comments

  1. Salty_Thing3144 Avatar

    We can’t read her mind either.  This question gets asked a lot here. There are 4 sure-fire ways to “tell” if someone “likes” you or not. FOUR.

    1 they tell you so

    2 you ask and they say yes

    3 they ask you on a date.

    4 you ask them on a date and they accept. 

    So take a chance and ask. Never waste time on flirting or “giving out signals” because those are too easy to misread or miss altogether.  Standing near you could mean they are interested in you – or are just standing near you. Looking at you could mean they like you, or that they are just looking at you. So don’t play dumb games. 

    Good luck!

  2. TayTay4EverNEver Avatar

    I’ve never done this lol

  3. JlTlS Avatar

    Would it be ok to say my cock is really warm?

  4. DreamerDaze95 Avatar

    I had a boy do this with me in high-school, and we ended up being fwb for a while. Lol
    Maybe she is testing the waters, and is a bit shy about it? Not all girls are upfront.
    Definitely take the chance if you feel there might be a chance, or feel the same. Life is too short

  5. Mktrill Avatar

    That is a definite “maybe” chances are yes, unless it’s not

  6. According_Victory934 Avatar

    She is exhibiting at least some interest (especially with the follow up – feel them). Touch is tactile and an initmate action. She invited you in to some of her personal space. If you have an interest in her, ask if she has some free time that you could spend just sharing about interests and such

  7. cwm9 Avatar

    “Would you like me to warm them up for you?”

    Yes -> Hold her hands and make them warm. If she looks at you with a satisfied smile she likes you.

    No -> “Well, I’m not sure what I can do for your cold hands then. Sorry!” Easy out if she says no.

  8. ShortOnesAunt1 Avatar

    I’m leaning more towards she likes you, but it’s been a long time since I was a young girl trying to flirt with a boy.

  9. Dry_Contact_983 Avatar

    Just open the front of your pants and say it’s warm in there.

    Lol no. Not really.

  10. thombrowny Avatar

    next time just say “let me see your hands” and hold one of them.

  11. herecomesthesun79 Avatar

    She definitely likes you. Or at least she wants your attention.

  12. PerspectiveFull4704 Avatar

    Look little homie she is into you warm her hands up