Do I go on a date with a boy who judged how I am living my life right now and me.

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So I met this boy I 19ftm on okay Cupid. I am on testosterone so my thoughts are a bit wack (very sexual) so he helped me buy a toy for this stuff and I asked him some questions about like relationships and the deed because I’ve never been in a serious relationship and done the deed. I admit me and him went a bit fast. So he like stopped this and like said I think we are going to fast. I’m like I agree with you we should take this slow. I did tell him stuff about myself then he says this shit.

“and also i like people that are independent and mature … i mean you still are relying on ur mom for alot of things no? “

First of all I ask my mom for help she’s still my mother but also I’m still independent. I asked her to keep my disability money (I get every month for being disabled as having autism) in check till I feel like I am ready to handle it because I just got my first job and I wanna learn how to handle my money right. Also I never got lessons on this type of stuff so ofc I’m taking my time so I can learn better. Idk why I’m explaining myself I’m just so pissed. We were supposed to go on a date next week now I’m rethinking it because I would never judge someone on there situation because everyone deals with stuff differently. Also I don’t know the language well in my home country so I am also struggling with that. Idk I’m so pissed how dare he judge me. He’s trying to make it right but I’m still pissed that was uncalled for. Do I still go on the date with 20m?

TL;DR do I go on a date with a boy who dared to judge me because on how I aml living as adult right now. To a autistic person.

Comments

  1. Novel-Piccolo4507 Avatar

    No! Don’t do it. Find better for yourself please

  2. MermaidTailBlanket Avatar

    > “and also i like people that are independent and mature … i mean you still are relying on ur mom for alot of things no? “

    That’s where you wish him luck in finding someone he deems independent and mature enough and cut him off.