As a 24M, I feel like I prefer emotional intimacy with women more than men. For some reason, this infuriates people to whom I confide about this. I don’t know why it does. I guess I just want to cry on a woman’s bosom after a bad day, since my life really really sucks a lot of the time, and I’m not sure it’ll get any better. It’s not that I don’t like it from men. I appreciate it from them too.
I guess I sometimes feel like I want to be taken care of by a woman. Could be a mother figure kind of thing, but it seems I’m also heavily romantic. I just came off of a really toxic first relationship and my ex has been absolutely traumatizing to me.
I honestly don’t know what I really want out of my relationships with other human beings in general besides being seen deeply by others or something.