I just went on a first date and didn’t really know if it was a date till the end.
I’ve been texting this guy I’ve know since freshman year of high school, I was unsure if he was talking to me to make a move or just be friends.
I had a bad week and said I was gonna break something so he offered to take me to a rage room. I accepted still unsure if this was a date, I wasn’t sure if that was really a first date activity. So we went to the rage room and then got food. When he dropped me off he walked me to my door. We hugged for kind of a long time I pulled away and we were just looking at each other and then he pulled me back into the hug. When he pulled away, he kissed me, and he pushed me against my fridge and then quickly pulled away.
He said he was sorry that was a lot. I was definitely flustered, I was caught off guard but it was very hot and I said it was fine then he kissed me again and left. It’s been 2 days and I can’t stop thinking about it. Do I tell him that I’m feeling this way or do I just wait and feel it out a little more?
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Backup of the post’s body: I just went on a first date and I did know this person from freshman year of high school which was like 10 years ago now but we had started texting and I was unsure if it was a romantic thing. I should also say I was unsure if it was a date till the end. We went to a rage room and then got food he dropped me off and walked me to my door. we hugged for kind of a long time I pulled away and we were just looking at each other and then he pulled my back into the hug and when he pulled away, he kissed me. Then he pushed me against my fridge and then quickly pulled away to say he’s sorry that was a lot. I was definitely flustered and just said it’s fine then he kissed me again and left. And it’s been 2 days and I can’t stop thinking about it. Do I tell him that I’m feeling this way or do I just wait and feel it out a little more?
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Feeling which way? Did you feel flustered as in defensive, or turned on?
Oh…. The grammar is messed up
What way are you feeling?
Send him a selfie and say you had fun, and ask when are you seeing him again
Facts check out you do seem flustered. If you want a relationship be honest if you’re interested leave things where they lay. Good luck
Just tell him you didn’t know if it was a date or not, but that you’re not mad about how it ended (if hot and flustered in a good way)
Maybe it wasn’t an official date to him either but he got caught up in a moment.
Either way talk to him about it.