I’ve been talking to an 18f for a bit now—nothing official, we’re not dating. I’m 17m, and honestly, I don’t think I’m the best looking guy out there. She’s really attractive, and it’s been messing with my head a little. Am I cooked? People say “girls hear, boys like to see”—is that actually true? She already knows what I look like, and I’m trying to build up the confidence to ask her out. But is it even worth it? Or am I just hyping myself up for rejection? Be honest.
TL;DR: I’m a 17m talking to a very attractive 18f. I don’t think I’m good-looking—should I even try asking her out, or am I wasting my time?
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Looks get you in the door, but it’s your personality and game that will get her to stay attracted to you.
You have nothing to lose, just fake confidence
What have you got to lose?
Looks matter but what looks just OK to one may be stunning to another. Always pays to try. Otherwise you never know.