I used to be a cadet as a teenager, and got the hang of using shirt stays. Wondering if other men use them. You know, the stretchy things you clip to your dress shirt and to your socks to hold the shirt down. Is this old school or are younger men using them?
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Never seen anyone ever wear them except for dressing super fancy. And even then not very often.
When I tell my shirt to stay, it doesn’t move. It’s a very good shirt.
Used em when I was wearing a uniform, not as a civilian though.
Never even knew this product existed
Closet I get is suspenders
I use them in the military. Only time I use them.
I use them for formal occasions. They keep your shirt tucked in tight and it makes a big difference if you’re moving around/bending over etc.
Collar stays? Yes. Shirt stays? No.
I used them when I wore suits but I haven’t worn a suit in almost 15 years at this point. I don’t really have a need for them with Hawaiian shirts and khakis pants.
If I’m going to a formal
Event(wedding, gala etc…) I wear shirt stays. But not for every day wearing a dress shirt and slacks.
I guess old-school. I’m Gen X. Whenever I wear a shirt that’s tucked, there’s something different that achieves the same goal. It’s a rubber belt with holes that alternate between being bent,puffed in, or out. You’d put the belt on over the dress shirt by the tails. Then put your pants on. The rubber belt’s holes grip the shirt and the pants.
I had one handed down from my father until it disintegrated. I found one about 8 years ago at a pawn shop. no idea what it’s called. But shirt stay belt– just did a Google search, “shirt tailor rubber belt.”
Easier to use, and stays put/works for about 15-20 years.
Not even when I was in the military.
Got them for a wedding a few years back and now use them everytime I get dressed up. No more constant shirt tucking
I hate when shirts come out, so yeah, I use them.
If my shirt does not stay when I move if I’m wearing formal wear I simply shoot my butler.
Too afraid it would come loose and snap me in the balls.
“Shirt stays” where I’m from we’re always the little white plastic things that kept the collar down. I’ve literally never sent be suspenders or whatever you’re talking about k. Even my 82yo dad or 104yo granddad (when he passed)
Shirt stays for socks? I have a pair of sock garters that I like to break out for special dress occasions where I know I may also get some.
I used to use the ones attached to your feet but then I switched to fhe belt kind.
I used to wear shirt stays one time I had it snap off of my sock and made me jump in front of my co workers. I stopped wearing them. I keep metal collar stays handy.
My shirt stay is my boxer lmao
Yep. Used them all the time when I had to wear dress shirts for work. Even used them on some work Polos. The luxury of not having to retuck my shirt was much appreciated.
I use them for formal events where I’ll be wearing a suit for an extended period of time. I have a bit of a gut and my shirt comes untucked easily
Used too every time I put on dress uniforms. Now, I just put them on once or twice a year if I’m really dressing up. If I was working in a business casual office setting I would probably wear them.
Outside of the military & being forced to? I’d say it’s extremely rare
Stirrups were actually pretty nice
If I had to wear dress clothes & look very nice a lot, I’d consider going back to them
I don’t miss having bald spots where the metal adjustment piece sat on my leg & pulled hair out
Marines wear them when in their blues. I know a guy who put them on a little too tight and it popped off his sock and drilled him in the nuts.
I was a cadet once too. Never used them then or in the military. The one thing that carried over for me was shiny shoes. If I’m dressing up my shoes will be shined.
Knew a couple guys that used them in the us navy but they never seemed worth the hassle. Especially during my time in C school
I did when I was still in the military and wore my Blues. Also did as a cadet in ROTC.
Not familiar with the term at all.
And I am NO spring chicken.
So now I’m stumped and intrigued in equal measure.
Until this thread I never knew these existed.
I use them still.
As a tall skinny guy I wish I had found them sooner in life. Also the grippy waist for dress/business casual pants. So I didn’t always look like the Penguin with my shirt falling out. If it works, it’s not dumb or old. It just works.
My coworker called them strap ons, we all gave him a weird look. He’s late 30s so 🤷
I too was once an NJROTC cadet. I never used them outside of my uniform. And I don’t plan on doing so. My back hurts too much.
No. Low rise or no show socks and even pushed down tube socks back in the day. Couldn’t see many people wearing it who are not military/active duty.
It’s not something with everyday wear normally, unless you’re prone to shirts untucking regularly. Military use in dress uniforms to maintain the look without puffiness in the shirts. Used mostly in formal wear.
I started recently, and I wish I knew they existed before!
I find myself with shirt tucked in more often than not.
Ha using them for the first time ever today for a wedding. Got sick of my dress shirts always becoming untucked so hopefully they will do the trick!
I only used shirt stays for the one Navy Service Uniform. I liked how they made me look good in the uniform for however long I wore it. But shirt stays are not a thing I’d ever choose to wear if I wasn’t putting on some sort of professional attire.
They made me feel like a science experiment.
I don’t tuck in my shirt, so no.
I’m 42 and have never seen them worn
Collar stays: yes any & every time I wear a shirt.
Shirt stays: Never
Yeah I’ve never heard of these at all.
I’ve heard of weights in the seams at the bottom of the shirt but not this.
Either would have been nice when I was wearing dress shirts.
“belt with suspenders” vibe
I was a cadet as a teen too. I use shirt stays on very formal occasions, weddings, funerals, job interviews
I have a set, but I don’t wear them. I keep forgetting I have them.
I had to look it up in Google. I had never heard of such a thing
I’m an old head, and started using them recently. I’m liking them with suits, but also with just shirt and pants.
I’ve never heard of this in my life but I have a feeling you’ve just changed it! I always have a ton of trouble with keeping shirts tucked in and this sounds amazing!
Not over 30, but enthusiastic about menswear.
You don’t need shirt stays if your shirt has the right length. It should cover your ass when untucked, so it’s held in place. It’s made worse by a lot of men wearing their trousers way too low. I was at a galla recently and my shirt stayed in my trousers the whole night even after hours of dancing to 80’s pop.
I use sock stays on formal occations. Mens trousers on modern suits ride up when sitting because of their cut, and i’m nog gonna be showing off a wrinkled sock scrunched up around my ancle. It looks a bit old fashioned, but also pretty classy in my eyes. And it prevents constantly having to pull your socks up.
If your dress shirts are pulling out of your pants, it means your arm holes are cut too low at the shoulder. This is tough because most people don’t bother buying custom made shirts.
Frankly it’s very very unusual circumstances where male attire is both formal wear and active wear. Basically most of society doesn’t combine the two. Military, police, correctional officer, and some military influenced academic pursuits including marching bands are the exceptions. Other than that, active wear and formal wear evolved in different directions and don’t overlap much. And short stays exist only in that overlap. Singlets as worn in many Olympian uniforms are an example of a different solution to the basic problem.
I used them for my dress uniform with the fire department
I use them for work. I’m rather thin, so I have a hard time keeping my button-up shirts tucked in. I also have to raise my arms frequently while working.
I had to look it up. Never heard the term.
Now that I’ve seen it, no. God no. Heck no.
Why would anyone?
I only knew of these because of my time in the military. Retired after 21 years and not once did I ever use them. Don’t plan on breaking my streak.
I have not, but I do use my sock garters because they’re fun, and I have these nifty magnetic collar stays that my former bar manager told me about. Those things are great. They give me a more professional look when I wear a shirt without buttons for the collar
Only when I wore a military dress uniform
Is this an American thing? Because even in the UK military we never used these.
There is something very bondage like about them, why don’t you just buy shirts that are long enough
If you were getting undressed in front of somebody wearing these they would laugh you out of the bedroom.
I’ve used shirt stays at work for a decade. Not sure why everyone is so against them here, they work great
Wore some for my wedding, was great not having to retuck
i’ve never used them and don’t know a single man that has.
I’m 33 and recently started using them. I love it!
This has to be a US thing. I’ve never ever seen this in the UK, and the thought of you lot attaching your shirt to your socks is hilarious!😂
I do. People also ask me how my shirts fit so well and how they don’t have big blow out in the the back with excess fabric.
It just seems like a pain to undo when you have to use the bathroom.
The fold and tuck method has worked pretty well for me
I’m so confused right now and don’t know what is the right answer
Who knew all these military men walk around wearing opposite suspenders
I used them for my last interview and I felt like a clown.
Not for regular clothes, but I do when I’m going somewhere and want to dress well. Was also a cadet at a regimented college and learned it there.
Nope
I actually got a sticky-ish elastic belt, wear it around your shirt, under your pants. It helped. I’m big, my shirts un-tuck all the time otherwise. I’d never do the shirt-to-sock suspender things
Marines do.
Never once
I started using them recently and I can’t imagine not using them. But they don’t go to my socks. They wrap around my thighs.
I first used them in police academy years ago…and I’ve worn them every time I’m in a suit ever since. Mostly because I positively loathe ironing, and shirt stays stretch the wrinkles out of the shirt so well no ironing is necessary.
There were only 13 at the time?
I would like this tbh. Never heard of it before and dislike my non slim fit shirts escaping my pants.
Like Uncle Joe, I got hairy legs. Tried shirt stays once. Every step was like an epilator running up and down my legs.
Never again.
I have some and I use them whenever I need to look sharp in a dress shirt!
Once I found out they existed I was like fuck yeah this is awesome
Never used them and I am 62
Many men that have not been in military or police or grew up wearing suits or some dress uniforms do not know about them.. but yes i do when wearing a suit or dress shirt and tie
I dont know what this is lol
Old school.
Yes. I didn’t know they existed until I joined the military. After being a groomsman at multiple weddings it was actually noticed how I appeared in pictures compared to the other guys. All my guy friends use them now too. Only formal occasions though. Weddings. Classy work functions. Etc. it really does make a noticeable difference. Use the ones that wrap around your thigh, not the military ones that clip to your socks. Much more comfortable.
I also highly suggest magnetic shirt collar stays and tie tabs. The tie tabs/tacs can be fun cause you can play with it a bit and show some personality with them. Similar to how women have a lot of jewelry to choose from. Plus it’s super functional. You’d be surprised how many times you’ll see men lean over while wearing a tie and it dips into food/drinks etc
Only even heard about it because I knew some people at a military college.
I didn’t know what a shirt stay was until you described it.
I’ve never known tshirts to have those…
I used them to hold my dress uniform shirts in, thats about it though.
I’ve never heard of them but I definitely need them. At work I bend over a lot and my shirt tail comes out. Will this help a big boy like me with that?
You’re telling me there’s a gadget that clips to the bottom of my shirt and then I have to clip it to my socks? Are you kidding???
I actually used them when I was a patrol officer and had to wear my dress uniform.
I’m 40 and have never even heard of them.
Nah, I had to use them in the military and I hated them whenever I had to wear them. As soon as I got out of training and schooling I never used them again.
After having been popped a few times and having my leg hair get snagged with almost every step I said screw it.
Only when I was in the military. If you’re sitting and standing many times a day they can come in handy.
You can tuck your shirt into your underwear but I just prefer to put my hands in my pockets and pull down on the shirt bottoms.
I used them when wearing Army Class A or B uniforms.
I started using them for my wedding when I got a tux and hated untucked shirts.
Haven’t gone back and now I use them whenever I wear formal clothes.
Bro I don’t even know what that is 😂
I used to wear them on my shirts in food service. It would keep my shirt snug through a 12 or 14 hour day without untuvking and prevented catching on stuff. I thought I looked more crisp.
I wore them for 10 years in my 20s through late 30s as a casual dining manager. That was only a few years ago.
Yes. Much cleaner look.
I use the ones that go around your thigh instead of the socks.
Yep, I use them. I hate tucking my shirt every 5 minutes when I wear a button-up.
I bought some a couple years ago for formal wear (suits) and love them. No more blousing on the shirt. It stays tucked and you look better with them on. I don’t wear suits often, but when I do I always wear these shirt garters.
Used them every time I wore my dress blues in the Air Force.
Haven’t used them after getting out.
I do. It changed my life.
I have not used this since I got out of the marines
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Nice try big shirt stay. 99% of the people here have never heard of this product before but now they have! Is your guerilla marketing working? Have sales gone from 1 per year to dozens in the past day?
If I’m going to an event that I will keep my shirt tucked in at, I use them. Really elevate appearance and gives me piece of mind that it stays tucked. Underrated in my opinion for smart/formal events
For dress events that I want to look snazzy in, sometimes.
And when in uniform. Because I mostly have to then.
I never used them when I was in afjrotc but I fixed my shirt all the time cause if I was gonna wear the uniform I’m gonna try to look as sharp as can be and not like the ones who’s shirts were wrinkled hardly had any shine on there shoes, (btw to any antirotc peeps, I might of tried and did all the extra stuff I could do in the class but I didn’t have some chip on my shoulder like I hear people say and never seen it before but I tried because I enjoyed it, it made me a better man and I had plans to go directly into the military and that was free extra money basically
I’m 54 and never heard of such devices, not seen them in any store.
I use them every time I need to tuck in a shirt, which is essentially never besides like weddings.
I only use them when I’m wearing a suit.
But also, I work in a casual dress environment. If I had to wear a dress shirt and dress pants, it’s likely I’d use them.
Yes that’s old school and guys don’t really use them any more.
If you want your shirt to stay tucked in, there’s an easier trick. First tuck your undershirt into your underwear waistband, then tuck your shirt into your pants. The layering holds everything in place very well. Yes I know it sounds strange but this is the best way to do it without risking a slingshot to your balls.
i tried them for a while, but they are a bit uncomfortable.
Never knew that existed but no i won’t be using it
never knew what this was!
cool, but no I don’t see the point if you have shirts that fit
As a fat dude, whenever I’m at a formal occasion, I wear shirt stays and suspenders. Was wierd at first but the comfort wins by long margin.
I didnt know that went to your shirt. Ive seen them attached to socks and assumed they attached to boxers like a garter belt.