After having my boys, obviously my body has not been the same. My youngest is 1.5yrs. Im probably about 15lbs from my pre-baby weight but regardless i have not been able to rid the fupa and honestly i dont think i will ever completely get rid of the extra skin that hangs a little. Its not like super bad but its just not what it was before… this is the thing, i kinda like the extra weight, sometimes i doubt and i wish i was smaller but a lot of times, i feel like its kinda sexy. What do men think?
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Some guys care and some guys don’t.
Guys that are good shape/fit will probably care guys that aren’t probably won’t.
Those who matter don’t mind, and those who mind don’t matter.
Herbs do
I didn’t marry her for her bikini body, I’m still a big fan of play time.
If you ask the average man what a FUPA even is, he probably won’t know or will confidently give you the wrong answer.
Love em
Fat equals flavor last I checked.
My wife is sensitive about it but I honestly think it’s a beautiful thing. Her body is that way because she carried / birthed our son.
I’m 47 and this is the first I’ve ever heard the term.
It really matters how much. If all that extra 15 pounds when to FUPA, probably pretty fucking wild. But a nice bit of cushion or mound is always pretty sexy, especially if you can see the outline through yoga pants or panties.
more cushion for the pushing.
I do.
I’m not attracted to thin women – just not my type. I like more puffy and soft women. And the little belly area fat is just another area where I like my partner to have something more than just skin and bone. While in action, it’s more cushion for my pushin’, so it makes happy time much better for me.
I heard something yesterday and it had me crying laughing. No idea who to credit with it as the lady telling the story was talking about someone else. She basically was saying Jamaican men talking dirty is like poetry.
This question was asked and the response was “good pussy deserves shelter”. I about fell out of my chair. (if anyone has a link please add it as it definitely is not my joke originally and it was hilarious).
My answer is it depends. Everyone has a preference but the most important thing is if your partner says he doesn’t mind or finds you sexy as you are… BELIEVE HIM!
As an aside, If it bothers you and you want to do it for you in a couple of years, there are surgical and non surgical ways to change it.
Sorry I didn’t even know that Fupa was. So I googled it. I can say I definitely don’t care about it. My wife of 22 years still has a little fupa from having our 2 daughters. Who are now 19 & 17
My wife has been going to the gym for the past 17 years, she exercises 5 days a week and that part of her body still won’t go away. Unless she has surgery and she’s against doing that.
Personally I think it’s part of her now and don’t have a problem with it. In fact I never have. She been insecure about it in the past but now she’s come except as part her body. I always make sure to give that area of her body some extra attention/ love because i love everything about the beautiful women who gave me 2 amazing daughters!!
A father who appreciates his child, wouldn’t care less.
whats a fupa
Some like, some don’t. I dont.
I used to date a woman who was probably pushing 350. I used to grab on to that FUPA and ride the lightning.