wondered this after watching a movie where a guy just watches porn on his tv alone not doing anything (if it’s because they couldn’t show that in a movie they could have just implied he’s wanking it). and later a scene where someone steals a dirty magazine and just reads it without doing anything, fully clothed.
in real life, people just sitting at their computer or tv or phone or magazine and just consume it, dick/vagina isn’t out, no action happening, they just watch the erotic content and don’t do anything. and I don’t mean this in a denial way where they specifically get off on not being able to do anything. why? what’s the point?
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I’m sure people do, but I don’t understand the faintest reason why. I always found that portrayal in media odd.
I do occasionally. I prefer the golden age of porn where there was an actual plot. It’s not just about people mindlessly getting it and it’s not always something I watch just to get off to. I like watching with ot without getting off. I’ve watched by myself and in the past with my then boyfriend.
Not at all difficult. Just fast-forward to the plot.
Yea. My submissive isn’t allowed to jerk off and she loves watching and reading erotic content on a regular basis.
I used to watch porn without masturbating,
Being excited makes you feel something; it makes you have a somewhat happy/energetic feeling.
If you just tried to reach the climax as fast as possible, it would be gone with a couple of minutes (if you’re lucky). And feel the crushing weight of not being excited anymore.
However, if you can hold yourself back, you can enjoy that feeling way longer.
That’s the point. That’s the reason why people do that. They’re doing it to enjoy as much as possible, and not to rush to the most enjoyable part, which takes the joy out of it afterwards.
Something similar to video games occurs; people often try to (unintentionally) optimize the fun of the game. By doing things more ‘optimally,’ the game becomes less fun. In this situation, climaxing is the optimization of taking the fun out of it.
My half brother would casually watch porn on his phone while people were around just chilling with my other brothers in the living room.