Do women in relationships hate it when men come prematurely? (not necessarily every time)
Have you ever cheated/been cheated on or broke up with/were broken up with due to it?
Context to why im asking.
My ex long term gf (both 22 at the time) used to make me feel like shit about it if I finished first.
She’d go as far as to pout with tears in her eyes and give me the silent treatment if I ever came without making her finish.
It made me really unsure of myself in bed. Fast forward to now me (28) and my current gf (27) of six years have been living together for over 5 years.
Only in the past year I have been recently been having problems with being premature due to high amounts of stress due to life and its really pissing me off and affecting my self worth. Thankfully my gf is the most understanding person I know and she insists that it doesn’t bother her, which i believe her but it still must make her feel some sort of way surely.
I am NOT looking for advice on how to please a woman or advice on how to help deal with the premature issue. Im asking for people’s opinions and experiences in relationships where this happens.
TL;DR Ex gf made me feel bad on the nights I finished first and its messing with me now that im having this problem again 6 years later
Do women really hate it when their man cums first? How does it affect your view of him and have you ever left a man because of it
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I’ve never been angry or made them feel bad about it, no.
You need to get out of your own head. Yes there are some women and men who both view how every perfomance in the bedroom affects or reflects on them. That is not everyone and more importantly it’s not the woman you’re with now. Focus on fixing the external stresses you think are causing these problems.
5mg Lexapro will help.