Not at all you’re definitely not alone. Grief hits in waves, and sometimes it shows up out of nowhere. Crying like that just means they meant a lot to you. It’s normal and human
I was that way when my dad passed. After several months, I realized that he wouldn’t want me to cry everyday, and it’s not helpful to remember how sick he was, or what it was like when he passed, or the funeral. Whenever I thought about those things, I purposely tried to remember good things, funny things, great holidays or birthdays with him. He would want me to remember the good, not the hard times. It’s worked very well for me. Don’t be afraid to get grief counseling if you cant manage this on your own, many people find it helpful.
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Not at all you’re definitely not alone. Grief hits in waves, and sometimes it shows up out of nowhere. Crying like that just means they meant a lot to you. It’s normal and human
Yes, every happy moment and I can’t tell my dad about it.
Use to quiet a lot. Tell myself I’m out tears but I’m just going through a rough phase honestly
Yes absolutely…although I have to breathe through it if it happens while I am driving. It sucks to not be able to text them randomly.
I f I could still physically cry I’d still be in tears daily because of losing my father
I was that way when my dad passed. After several months, I realized that he wouldn’t want me to cry everyday, and it’s not helpful to remember how sick he was, or what it was like when he passed, or the funeral. Whenever I thought about those things, I purposely tried to remember good things, funny things, great holidays or birthdays with him. He would want me to remember the good, not the hard times. It’s worked very well for me. Don’t be afraid to get grief counseling if you cant manage this on your own, many people find it helpful.