I have this thing where I get deeply attached to my living space. I put a lot of effort into personalising my own space, so every time that I leave an house for another one is a big deal for me.
When I was younger, my symbolic thing was to smoke half a joint on the couch of the old house, put it off, and smoke the second half on the new house’s couch. Silly, I know, but it really helped to feel things connecting in a more spiritual way, when I just sat there, half stoned, lingering in memories and expectations, doing nothing but observing the smoke flowing through the space, imagining how I would have done things differently in the new house, as if I was supposed to shape a new, better me for it, and visualising a new daily life.
But now, I don’t smoke anymore (let alone indoors!!) so I’m trying to find another little ritual to honour and celebrate all the memories I have here and get ready to the new ones I will make in the new place.
Also, although this is my fourth apartment (since moving out from my parents’) I’ve been living here for almost 10 years, my now husband moved in 6 years ago and now we just bought our first home, so it’s a bigger deal than usual!
Does anybody else have a small, simple ritual that they like to celebrate for their home? What do you do?
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I know it sounds silly, but I always take a picture of the house number and front door when I leave a living space…. and before I close the door for the final time, I thank the house for keeping us safe and for the memories.
Light a candle and sit for a bit in the old house, then carry it with you to the next house and light it there. Similar vibe, but easier on the lungs and more scent options.
The first meal is always pizza off of paper plates (or whatever dishes we can easily find)