So this 23[M] cheats on a 20 [F] one way by texting the opposite gender and the other by linking with guys an only receiving oral only twice.
The female has been having mental health struggles. such as self doubt, panic attacks, trust issues, & thinks they can’t make no friends on there own. The [23M] has been doing it for 3 weeks to a month of texting other females ; Just to do for fun then cut them off when they didn’t give him attention and one week linked with a guy & later in the month link with another.
At the end of the month, he comes clean about what he did. it hurts the [20F]and hurts the [23M]too. This is the first time he done this, but this isnt the first time she has been cheated on. since then he has changed.
he even said that she can go do what he did
She has thought about it but says she can’t see herself doing that because it will be 10x more painful. So, she sees the changes but, she still hasn’t fully recovered from what happened a(n) now wants space to find herself.
Do you think this relationship can be saved ?
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No, and a 20 year old shouldn’t resign themselves to being with such a piece of shit.
In my opinion he is trying to alleviate his own conscience by saying that she can go do what he did. Also the italicized “only twice” was an odd choice. This sounds like a woman being sarcastic or a man trying to minimize his behavior. Either way my short answer is no