TW NSFW maybe SA
I had been fondling with my at the time bf, and he was telling me to slow down. This was bc he didn’t want to ejaculate in his pants. But I thought I was being sexy and teasing and his body language was very aroused, and I kept my pace or maybe even sped up i don’t remember . At the time I didn’t realize I might have been crossing a boundary or breaking consent. From my memory, (this was 3-4 years ago) He wasn’t outwardly mad about it, but a little awkward. But it’s making me feel like I did a horrible thing. I know I crossed a boundary and won’t repeat this behavior whatever it was SA or not. But I wanted others interpretation of my actions as my anxiety often makes me try and paint myself as a villain more than I should.
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It’s something from years ago that you also feel bad about and have learned from. Was it correct? Maybe not, but you shouldn’t keep beating yourself up over it.
Learn to live with the past and grow for the future.
When people are embarrassed, they are either laugh, get angry, or remove themselves from the situation as soon as possible. He was probably just embarrassed and reacted poorly. He had an orgasm. For the average dude, that’s a good day. He said to slow down. Not to stop.