Does anyone else talk to their pets as if they can understand what you’re saying?

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Does anyone else talk to their pets as if they can understand what you’re saying?

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  1. CrimsonWife Avatar

    Are there people who DON’T?? 😂

  2. Ok_Orchid1004 Avatar

    Of course, all the time.

  3. SparkleSelkie Avatar

    My dog knows all my secrets

  4. BrandonDill Avatar

    I’m pretty sure they can.

  5. Queer_Advocate Avatar

    Uh every pet lover that ever lived.

  6. AC20Enjoyer Avatar

    You mean yours can’t?

  7. guy_from_LI_747 Avatar

    I talk to all animals like that ..they know

  8. Acrobatic-Grass-2325 Avatar

    Duh, I think it helps for a middle ground to be reached.

  9. tafkatp Avatar

    Oh yes, to much dismay of the missus sometimes. I just want to believe that my budgies and i have an understanding that nobody else understands.

  10. MeloncholyTardigrade Avatar

    I don’t know, but, they all react when I say “Dinner”!

    (Yes, I know they are just reacting to the sound and tonality, but it’s nice to think otherwise)

  11. -CASTLES- Avatar

    i always let my dog know that im leaving ONLY FOR A SECOND

  12. Garden_Circus Avatar

    I speak to them in the King’s English pretty much. I ask them a lot of questions and we have really good meaningful dialogue

  13. anditurnedaround Avatar

    Mine can’t hear and I still talk to them. 

  14. Legen_unfiltered Avatar

    I do and he’s been deaf for a few years now. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  15. jjlovemack Avatar

    Dogs understand

  16. fencite Avatar

    Yes. My deaf dog hears everything I want him to know.

  17. Garden-variety-chaos Avatar

    To be fair, he is understanding my tone more than my words, but he doesn’t completely NOT understand. He also knows a few words, like “leave,” “dinner,” “stop,” and “no.” I’d like to think he knows what “I love you” means, but I can’t prove it. He knowingly and intentionally disobeys me sometimes.

  18. MetalRocksMe_ Avatar

    All the time. I speak to them like I’m talking to another human.

  19. Narrow_Grapefruit_23 Avatar

    My border collie knows English. She responds to full sentences in a way that you can’t convince me otherwise.

  20. Competitive-Regret-6 Avatar

    Everyone does this

  21. Visual-Lobster6625 Avatar

    Yes. My poodle likes to steal my socks when he wants to go outside. So I put on some fake outrage and demand them back. Some “Oh my goodness” and “give me my socks” later, and he’ll hand them over eventually.

    Also, he’s my service dog, so when I’m at the store I run my grocery list by him so that I don’t forget it.

  22. sherberticepickle43 Avatar

    Yes because they do

  23. wildcat_abe Avatar

    I tell mine that I don’t understand what she’s saying to me because she doesn’t speak English. 😂

  24. Turbobuick86 Avatar

    Only all of us.

  25. CapitanianExtinction Avatar

    What do you mean “as if”?  

    Of course they understand.

  26. Bright_Ices Avatar

    Doesn’t almost everyone? 

    My spouse even talks to random insects as though they can understand. 

  27. sugarandspice27 Avatar

    My cats talk back!

  28. TsundereStrike Avatar

    my boy doesn’t understand me?? I call BS

  29. Nice-World-616 Avatar

    Doesn’t everyone? Lol

  30. troubleWithALilTea Avatar
  31. NMarzella282 Avatar

    Of course 🙂

  32. Sumgeeko Avatar

    I talk to my pet and then I talk back in my dog’s voice. He likes to argue with me.

  33. ebonyxcougar Avatar

    Yes and they respond as if they understand so I’ll keep doing it. 😤😤

  34. enphurgen Avatar

    I talk to my plants that way

  35. ZappDanigan42 Avatar

    They can understand

  36. MurkyInvestigator622 Avatar

    Of course he understands. He’s an intelligent being

  37. yesletslift Avatar

    Yes, I talk to my dog all the time and ask him questions that he answers with sounds or looks lol.

  38. darkhorse7447 Avatar

    Yes,because they do!

  39. DrDHMenke Avatar

    My wife. Even the chickens and tortoises.

  40. Suspicious_Agent_599 Avatar

    Only when it’s all the time.

  41. SortovaGoldfish Avatar

    Not only my pets but just any animal stuck in a room alone with me long enough and I’ll start ranting about absolute nonsense like the evolution of submarines or the AU family and generational dynamics of the FNAF animatronics

  42. Key_Assistance_2125 Avatar

    My dog is trilingual. Dog (Lab dialect), English, a little Spanish

  43. Starshopping11 Avatar

    I show my dog photos like she can comprehend if.

  44. Total-Confidence9294 Avatar

    They DO understand what I’m saying

  45. IncreaseOk8433 Avatar

    Depending on what’s been injested on my part, they talk to ME!

    Trust me, getting lectured by a 26 pound Maine Coon for not rinsing his water bowl isn’t the experience you’d expect it to be;)

  46. Desert-sea-sparkle Avatar

    I talk to the animals all the time. I even know when they’re talking back to me. They say so much if you know how to listen. And they absolutely talk so much shit haha.

  47. AltReality-A Avatar

    I forget that my pets are completely unaware of the rich interior lives (and voices) I’ve created for them

  48. garlic_bread_thief Avatar

    I mean pets are barking and meowing at us as if we can understand what they’re saying lol

  49. hapuscapus Avatar

    Yes all day long. Like full blown conversations and I tell her what I’m doing, thank her for helping/supervising, and explain things bc she’s my best friend!

  50. Sparky62075 Avatar

    I talk to my snake all the time. I’m pretty sure he has about ½ a brain cell.

  51. drums_addict Avatar

    My girlfriend certainly does.

  52. Bobbob34 Avatar

    Yeah — because they do understand what I’m saying. They’re not dumb.

  53. JellyBeans5050 Avatar

    Of course I do, but actually she was able to
    Understand much of what I was saying.. A German Shepherd name Sophie, who picked up most anything I dropped..

  54. mekonsrevenge Avatar

    I think they understand you know they’re concerned and are reassuring them. I’ve always felt my cats get the drift if I say that I’ll be right back or that I’ll fix their dinner in a few minutes.And of course that I love them. They’re perceptive.

  55. Slopii Avatar

    Yeah, even the deaf cat.

  56. ValkyriesFeatherSoul Avatar

    Always. I have a dog, two birds and five reptiles. I even talk to my snakes like they understand.

  57. voidspaces1 Avatar

    Every day without fail.

  58. Ok-Currency-2143 Avatar

    I am a firm believer that the more you talk to your pets the more they understand. Listening is a whole other thing

  59. imgomez Avatar

    Of course!

  60. Erinkilcoyne Avatar

    I talk with my pets all of the time lol

  61. HawaiianShirtsOR Avatar

    I know the snake doesn’t speak English, but I talk to her anyway. She often pokes her head out of her hide while I read bedtime stories to the kids, so I think she likes the sound of my voice.

    My daughter talks to her beetles too.

  62. Riparian87 Avatar

    Our neighbor’s dog is totally deaf since birth, but I can’t stop myself from speaking to her. Hoping she can read lips!

  63. fluffenutty Avatar

    Absolutely I do. Red flag if a person doesn’t, right?! Or am I the red flag??

  64. whimsy_caps Avatar

    I know they understand sometimes.

  65. RazzamanazzU Avatar

    Of course and they understand better than humans.

  66. EmFiveBlue Avatar

    Yes and in a higher pitched voice that I’m positive annoys anyone who hears me lol.

  67. wonderlandbound518 Avatar

    Oh, she understands everything.

  68. Independent_Quit1933 Avatar

    My labs understand “out” and ” ball” and “treat”.

  69. Mcboatface3sghost Avatar

    Yes, and different pets are spoken to in different voices… it’s not a Friday sales board meeting (although in my mind I talk to all of them differently)

  70. old3112trucker Avatar

    The scary part is that you think that they don’t understand.

  71. butterbewbs Avatar

    I tell my dog what I’m going to do when I leave the house. “I’m going to work, be back soon.” He does his little head tilt in acknowledgment.

  72. ChrispyGuy420 Avatar

    I feel like it helps him pick up on things better

  73. Waaghra Avatar

    My cat talks a lot, so we frequently have a dialog.

  74. AggravatingShow2028 Avatar

    Yes and no. I don’t hold conversations but I talk to them like I would a two year old.
    “Who wants to go to the park?”
    “Are you hungry? I know you are! Let’s go eat”
    “Where is your toy?”
    “Who made this mess?”
    “Why are you barking? There is no one outside!”

    That’s just the conversations I had today 🤣

  75. Traditional_Entry183 Avatar

    I talk to pets the same way that I talk to small kids. It feels natural, and they almost always respond well to it. My cats both listen to me, and generally come to me when I call and let me know what they want.

    Its also led to my in law’s dogs responding a lot better to me than to them, even though they see me a lot less. Kindness goes a long ways.

  76. prismaticbeans Avatar

    Of course! I know she doesn’t understand EVERY SINGLE THING I say but she makes it clear she understands plenty of things. I wouldn’t want to shut my best little friend out of my life by assuming she’s just a teddybear that can walk. She is a teddybear who can walk, but she is also someone with thoughts and feelings and intelligence of her own.

  77. iscream4eyecream Avatar

    Absolutely! And we use a little Dutch girl accent for what she says to us. My SO and I get a kick out of personifying our bb girl.

  78. Trystanik Avatar

    I absolutely do and they absolutely do! To think that they don’t understand that they’re good boys/girls because they don’t understand when I say it is horrifying.

  79. basic-ass-magician Avatar

    Not only my own pets, all animals!

  80. catslikepets143 Avatar

    Not only do I talk to our pets, I talk to any & all wild animals I see.

  81. CtForrestEye Avatar

    What? You think I can speak dog!

  82. Ibraheem_moizoos Avatar

    Come on man. You know everyone does. What are we supposed to do bark at them? Meow at them? chirp at them?

  83. PhancyJo Avatar

    Don’t be ridiculous. Of course my dog can understand me.

  84. Rachael008 Avatar

    We have a beautiful black cat, she is just over 2 years old and her name is Mabel .
    She knows every word i say and me and my 15 year old daughter just adore her .
    She means everything to us .

  85. fantastic_sputnik Avatar

    My dog is bilingual. How else are they supposed to learn if you don’t speak to them??

  86. Short-Quit-7659 Avatar

    They understand me

  87. butthatwasbefore Avatar

    I talk to my cat all the time. She’s a very good listener.

  88. Mach2968 Avatar

    Uhh who doesn’t do this. Also,
    We do a voice that our dog talks back in

  89. sabbesankharaanitcha Avatar

    Yes. He understands.

  90. thedarkforest_theory Avatar

    My tortoise has a brain the size of a small pebble but somehow understands everything I tell her.

  91. Joeuxmardigras Avatar

    I have to explain to him that we’re going to GUITAR practice, not SOCCER practice every week

  92. Craigh-na-Dun Avatar

    All the time. They are totally aware!

  93. divine_ms_em Avatar

    Beats talking to just myself all the time 🤷‍♀️
    I feel like at least the pets listen, unlike my human kids 😂

  94. Eldenbeastalwayswins Avatar

    I carry full on conversations with my cats. They look at me sideways and sometimes they react. But mostly they ignore me which is basically what every other person does on this planet so it’s all good.

  95. greatstonedrake Avatar

    I am completely convinced that my old dog Brandi and two of my cats 100% understand me. The rest just tolerate me talking to them.

  96. itchygentleman Avatar

    Yes, but my dog answers simple yes or no questions by licking his nose for yes

  97. hashdagger420 Avatar

    I’ve told my dog that if he can talk then he can tell me and I won’t tell anyone. Unfortunately I can’t tell anyone whether or not it worked

  98. ravia Avatar

    I talk for my dog. I say what he’s thinking.

  99. olddeadgrass Avatar

    We swear our dog knows perfect English. We can say a full sentence and he’ll understand. Like we’ll say, “Sorry buddy, we can’t play right now. Can you go lay down for a little bit?”

    He’ll drop whatever toy he has and immediately go lay down in his bed or on his couch. He’ll look so sad and pitiful too (we play with him multiple times a day, don’t worry).

  100. Garytown Avatar

    Yours cant?

  101. Remarkable_Peach_374 Avatar

    Ill have whole conversations with my dads dog, shes got just a bit of husky in her, and boy does she show it 🤣

  102. Heyitsemmz Avatar

    Yes!

    Constantly saying nice things to my dog to boost her self esteem 😂

  103. fineok_17 Avatar

    Oh yeah, I tell my cat my plans, when I’m leaving, random thoughts I have, everything. I usually talk a lot out loud anyway when I’m alone so now my cat gets to hear it lol

  104. CuriousMindedAA Avatar

    Absolutely, daily. If she ever answers me, I’ll freak out 😂😻

  105. onanupswing Avatar

    100%! Part of socializing my puppy is explaining to her like she’s another grown up what things are, sounds, places, and why they are that way or what we’re there for. It mostly just makes me giggle but she loves the sound of my voice!

  106. AelishMcGuire Avatar

    All day long.

  107. CrustyT-shirt Avatar

    My cat fucking knows what I’m saying he just chooses to ignore it.

  108. doyouvoodoo Avatar

    I do a lot of training using commands with tones so that I can later “talk” to my dogs and they will understand the tone as the command.

    Many guests and friends of mine believe the dogs understand what I’m saying, but I’m just inflecting certain tones into the sentences.

  109. Device_whisperer Avatar

    I do talk to him but I frequently exceed his vocabulary.

  110. Mediocritess Avatar

    I teach my pet rat Nelly how to make coffee every morning while she sits on my shoulder and watches. She still can’t do it, but I’ve given her all the information she needs. 

  111. Kayman718 Avatar

    What do you mean “as if?” My dog understands a lot of what I say. She’s even caught on to some sign language and words I spell out. Nothing gets by her.

  112. SeveroSantana Avatar

    Yeah, but not only that. At times I talk to my cat as if he was not only human, but an adult who understands complex subjects

  113. TheRemedyKitchen Avatar

    You’re implying that they somehow can’t?

  114. Spiceybrown Avatar

    I talk to my cats like people all the time. I even did it when I took 2 of them to the vet the other day in front of the vet.

  115. bombasticBb Avatar

    She knows what I’m saying.

  116. Cowstle Avatar

    I have a hard time speaking. Something in my body just doesn’t let me if I don’t think I’m doing it to another human. I’ve gotten better about speaking to pets, but it’s still something that i find difficult unless there is another human who can reply around.

    Of course a big part in helping me get past it is realizing that animals actually can understand what I say. Especially if I pair it with the body language with them that I did not struggle with.

  117. Ralph_Magnum Avatar

    I don’t really. My wife does. The only issue for her is that she then isn’t consistent with what command words she uses because she just speaks to them like they have a good understanding of English.

    I stick to “speaking dog” and using short commands and cues, and body language they understand to communicate with them.

    They tend to listen to me better and default to me for a command or cue if moms confusing them. Which is fine. I think she could still talk to them if she would also commit to the commands for when she actually wants them to listen to her.

  118. cat___stalker Avatar

    I’m pretty sure my cat knows, he just doesn’t care

  119. BJntheRV Avatar

    Are you trying to tell me they don’t understand?

    My cat definitely knows. Words he definitely knows

    Dinner, treats, shirt off, bedtime clothes

    Words we are still working on after 8 years – no!

  120. Broccobillo Avatar

    My dog does understand. I’m convinced that if she had the ability to speak as a human that she could hold a conversation with me. I don’t have commands with my dog but I talk to it.

    “Hey, if you’re going to be like that then you won’t get any” ~ when she’s trying to beg for food while I’m eating. She knows exactly what I mean.

    Or

    “You know this other dog isn’t very friendly. Stop provoking it and we’ll just be on our way” ~ it’s amazing that she knows what I want from such a sentence.

  121. EvelynCardigan Avatar

    I thought it was established that they could understand a fair bit of what we say…maybe i’m wrong…

  122. Exact-Truck-5248 Avatar

    Sometimes, yes. It feels slightly less insane than just talking to myself.

  123. looloodles Avatar

    Do you deserve a pet if you dont?!

  124. Deeptrench34 Avatar

    I’m convinced they do understand.

  125. Raski_Demorva Avatar

    I say “MEESTER FEESH, MEESTER FEESH, MEESTER-MEESTER-MEESTER FEESH!” to my betta in the same rhythm/tone as the difficulty rhyme from Matilda lmao

  126. BuilderNo1297 Avatar

    Yes because they do

  127. AzriellaRipley Avatar

    Our Ragdoll cat Baroness is quite a talker. I talk to all my cats but especially her because she talks the most. She’s so smart and is also like a puppy. She clearly has alot to say whether is bitching, begging, ratting out, or God knows we want to get and train her on those press and speak buttons because she seriously has personality we know others would be amused by.

  128. Bonnieearnold Avatar

    I tell my dog to make better decisions when he starts barking at people walking by outside. So far he continues to make the same poor decisions.

  129. bluerivercardigan Avatar

    Ummm…they do understand me..what are you implying.

  130. Southern-Ad-802 Avatar

    I have a border collie/lab (Borador). I’ve only talked to her like a human since she was six weeks old. Full sentences and everything. Absolutely she can understand human talk. Not just mood or tone of voice either. She can probably understand English as well as a 1st grader can read. Like she call tell the difference between frustration and anger, happiness and excited, and the biggest one- she has a sense of awkwardness. It’s the funniest thing.

  131. jacle2210 Avatar

    Yeah.

    Just because they don’t understand language, they can still hear and hopefully they are comforted by hearing our voices.

  132. beebstx Avatar

    It’s weird if you don’t.

  133. Appropriate_Oil4161 Avatar

    I talk to my dogs all the time, just because they don’t reply doesn’t mean they don’t understand.

    Source ; babies.

  134. ButterflyMore9267 Avatar

    sort of, me, “wag ya tail if ya a dcikhead!” Dog wags tail. I laugh, he gets excited, then we play fight.

  135. army2693 Avatar

    How do you know they don’t understand? I call my cats and they come.

  136. Super-Kirby Avatar

    97% of people

  137. drunky_crowette Avatar

    I’ll talk to any animal like they can understand me. We can pick up on the meaning of their sounds and body language, you think they can’t figure out ours just as well?

  138. 17mahi Avatar

    Alllll the time. Are there people who dont do this ? I think not

  139. Houki01 Avatar

    My cats DO understand what I’m saying. “Dinnertime!” And “What have you DONE?!” Especially.

  140. entropygoblinz Avatar

    Sucks for the rest of y’all but my kelpie is smarter than most humans. I could teach her to make pizza, she’d be good at it

  141. sowdirect Avatar

    Mine generally get it. I told one of them today that they really need a bath and he shot me stink eye. I told him and just for that look you are getting a nail trim too. He tried to run and hide but he knows whats up.

  142. TheDevilsAdvokaat Avatar

    Sometimes. Just for fun.

  143. HouseOfInfinity Avatar

    My dogs understands me perfectly. We have a communication system in place when they come sit down in front of me and stare.

    I go get one their toys to dangle in front of them or throw. If they don’t chase it or lunge for it I move on to the next step. I get their leash. If they run up to me or start running in circles I know they want to go for a walk or poop. A perfect communication system.

    Then other times I chat with them they slightly lean their head to the side to let me know their listening 😂.

  144. Aruaz821 Avatar

    Of course.

  145. Dumfk Avatar

    No. I talk to my pets in a nice tone but i’m constantly talking shit about them. If they could understand then I would be in trouble.

  146. AbeRego Avatar

    O talk to inanimate objects like that, too

  147. annacaiautoimmune Avatar

    They understand me perfectly.

  148. SahjoBai Avatar

    I usually talk to them about dog business, because I don’t want to bore them. Like they’re totally up for me running down the schedule for when we’re going to play in the back, reminders of the ear medicine, comments on shedding, other dogs walking by. You know, stuff they’re interested in 😂

  149. SilentAllTheseYears8 Avatar

    My corgi had a huge vocabulary! She was SOOO intelligent!! She understood everything! I miss her SO MUCH 💔😭

  150. the_quantumbyte Avatar

    I was one of those people who believed dogs could only understand intonations, body gestures, etc. Then I met my wife’s dog. She’s a 14 year old Shih-tzu, and she definitely distinguishes words. I can tell her where her toy is without being in the same room and she goes directly there. She also knows the names of every single toy. Obviously she understands walk, food, etc. that doesn’t mean she understands the semantic meaning of words, but she can definitely tell them apart and they have a meaning to her: an action, a location, a smell, whatever. She’s the smartest dog I’ve met personally. Not in terms of tricks, but in terms of human interaction.

  151. thatoneguyfromva Avatar

    Every day, and to my utmost surprise, the cats don’t listen.