For me I’ve mostly ever received objectifying comments like “hot” and “sexy”, but very rarely “pretty” or “beautiful”. The least objectifying comment I get more often is “cute”, but that’s about it. It’s weird because I don’t give off an overtly sexy vibe imo (I’m very awkward and dorky), but I’ve been labelled as such by both men and women.
I wish I could be the type of person people perceived as beautiful. That compliment feels genuine and the times I’ve received it I was on a complete high and have those moments etched into my brain. It’s unfortunate how much perceived beauty makes me feel valued.
Idk, maybe this is a non-issue, but it’s been on my mind recently and wanted to know if people can relate.