Im single, still living with my mum and I work as a clinical photographer but I don’t feel fullfilled or anything.
I lost the love of my life through my own inability and I dont see myself being with anyone else as I still love him but he’s blocked me and has moved on.
I dont have a lot of friends or anyone im really comfortable or close with and I go home not doing anything.
I tried to get clients for my photography business but working in the NHS full-time I haven’t got time and just feel like I have failed.
There’s no point to anything if I am single, friendless and not heading anywhere in life.
Does it get better after 26 and if your a woman? I just think its easier for others than it is for me
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It gets worse.
You have to find a passion. You have to be committed. Whatever it is that visits you late at night. Whatever it is that you really want to learn/ do. Just do it. Educate yourself in it & go for it. You can make time for it. Everybody says “I don’t got time.” But everyone does, they js don’t want to. But it seems like you’re kinda lost and just drifting right now. Find your passion, and work towards it. And things will come together 👍
Yes, it does, you are so young. These are some really weird dark ages becuase it’s not tangible but it’s real. NHS sounds like you’re in the UK. I am in the US. What we have going on here is f-ing crazy and it affects you guys too. What I can say as someone who is a little bit older than you is if you put yourself out there it will get better. My mom made me go to a welcome event and I honest to god met my wife there. I am so sorry you’re having a hard time right now but you have an incredibly cool job and you seem really nice. You will meet friends and a partner if you want that. All you have to do is keep taking chances. That is much easier said than done, but you will be proud of yourself for trying. You can do this.
thats not the right question, things doesnt magically get better due to.getting older. things get better when you make them better, stop being a victim and start fighting to improve, humbly..hardworking..consistantly
Yes when u turn 27 your life automatically instantly gets better.
More often than not, things generally get better as you progress through life, your career, life skills, and learn new skills that help you navigate society.
I’m so curious: Clinical photographer? What is that?!
The only way to change this is to be the change Focus on number one nothing will improve unless you do.
You do not need to be in a relationship or a high end job to feel fulfilled learn what’s important to you and focus on that.
And learn to love yourself before anyone else
Between the age of 29- 32 my life was pretty shit moved away from my friends single what a brutal job living at my sisters but then one or two little things can change in your life can suddenly seem really good. Just ride it out.