35-year-old autistic male here.
Quite recently a very good friend of mine (57-year-old non-autistic female) told me that she had a dream in which I asked her to marry me and she accepted.
She said afterwards, “If the thought ever entered your mind, you know my response.”
Would you all call this definite, irrefutable proof that she likes me in that way?
I’m just looking for opinions.
We’ve been very close friends for some time now, but this is the first time I ever really got the impression that she might see me in a different light.
TL:DR A close female friend (57F) of mine (35F) told me that I proposed to her in a dream and she said yes. Does she like me?
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That’s a pretty strong statement. I would say yes, she does like you.
There’s not enough information to know with certainty how your friend feels, but that would be a strange thing to say to someone that you don’t have any romantic interest in. However, sometimes people are just weird. You have a pretty significant age gap. Have you considered pursuing a relationship with her prior to this?
It sounds like she was making a joke but it’s difficult to tell without hearing the tone in which she said it.
I would never say that to a friend I wasn’t interested in. Because even though I’m not straight out saying I’m into him, it’s still flirty and suggestive. I would never want to throw that out there if I looked at him as a friend only.