I have an older male coworker and we are friends. The other night he called me after having a few drinks and the phone call lasted almost three hours. During the call I heard a toilet flush and he had used the bathroom and when I teased him about it he said something about only needing one hand. Then later it sounded like he was falling asleep while talking and I finally said good night. Is this kind of intimate for coworkers?
I’m also moving and he got me a housewarming gift which is big so that he has to deliver it. And another time he said he wants to see my place. To be fair a lot of my coworkers want to see my place