(Driving Related) Please GO when it is your right of way

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I GREATLY dislike when I am content to wait for someone WHO HAS THE RIGHT OF WAY to then start expecting me to go first.

ESPECIALLY when they are slowly inching forward. Just GO homie.

Examples:

1) When we stop at the same time at a four way stop sign and they are on my right.

2) When I have to yield to oncoming traffic before turning left at a GREEN LIGHT (not a yellow one) and the driver (either turning left or going straight) stops and waits for me to go.

And no, I don’t care if it’s “polite.” I’m driving to follow the rules, NOT to be polite. But letting people in during traffic is a different story, I’m strictly talking about when I’m at a LIGHT, making a LEFT TURN, or when we stop at the same time and THEY ARE ON THE RIGHT. Just GOOOOO >:(

Comments

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  2. KitchenCup374 Avatar

    Where I’m at, people do the opposite of your number 2 point. Quite annoying and have almost had plenty of wrecks

  3. 2h4o6a8a1t3r5w7w9y Avatar

    not following right-of-way makes the road more dangerous for everyone involved. that means people who blow through stop signs AND people who do this shit. i’ve had people wave me on when they arrive at a roundabout before me. nuts.

  4. Disastrous_Maize_855 Avatar

    The safest way to drive is to be predictable and confident. Taking your right of way is
    Never rude. Just do it and be predictable. Everyone is better for it. 

  5. One_Maize1836 Avatar

    I’m in Michigan, and drivers here are either overly polite or absolute maniacs who ignore all rules. There is no in between.

    But just as with grammar, I think a lot of people just fail to LEARN what the actual rules are, and therefore don’t know what they are supposed to do in certain situations.

  6. Fancy_Environment133 Avatar

    Maybe we should try a different approach. When someone waves you through, ignore them. That’s what I do maybe eventually they will get it

  7. kingamara Avatar

    This is not an unpopular opinion

  8. BigRobsOddPod Avatar

    Not remotely unpopular FUCK those people, you’re literally holding up traffic making me wait to figure out on my own you’ve just decided to stop for no damn reason

  9. jav2n202 Avatar

    A friend of mine used to say, don’t be polite, be predictable, and I think about that every time someone does something like that

  10. Any-Practice-991 Avatar

    I was waiting to make a left turn at a green light, and the guy going straight on the other side stopped to wave me through, almost causing the traffic behind him to have an accident. He could not understand why I was shouting at him.

  11. TheirThereTheyreYour Avatar

    This isn’t an unpopular opinion, it’s the correct way to drive

  12. nudniksphilkes Avatar

    Most of the time if I am “waiting for somebody to go” it’s because im driving cautiously and expecting them to pull out in front of me. I think you’re misinterpreting this.

    And yes, I’ve avoided many accidents this way. People arent paying attention and just go at 4 ways and it causes wrecks. And yes, before you dump on me, I go when I have right of way unless im expecting somebody to pull out in front of me.

  13. lyndseymariee Avatar

    This is such a problem in the Seattle metro. People will fully stop in a lane to let someone waiting to turn left make their turn. No! Don’t do this. It’s not polite because now you’re holding up people behind you so you can what? Be nice to a person who should be waiting. It’s dangerous. Go when you have the right of way.

    ETA: this reminded me of something that happened while I was at a light the other day. I’m trying to turn left into a parking lot and this lady was turning right. I had a green light, not an arrow. The lady should’ve turned. Instead she tried to let me go and I waved her on. She got pissed and flipped me off because I was letting her go when she had the right of way. Like jfc.

  14. super713 Avatar

    On the road: Don’t be nice. Be predictable!

  15. Former-Bit390 Avatar

    There are sooo many of these posts.

  16. No-Satisfaction-Ever Avatar

    I don’t think this is unpopular. Sure, lots of people like to be curteous but it’s known to be correct and safer to just follow the right of way.

  17. Wise_Item2969 Avatar

    Was literally JUST talking about this last night with a few people.

  18. SpritzLike Avatar

    I have to travel through a fairly busy 4-way intersection to get out of my neighborhood, so go through it at least twice a day. It’s hard to remember who was first sometimes when I have other things on my mind. But when we’re all sitting there for more than 1/2 a sec I just go.

  19. I-Am-Willa Avatar

    This annoys me but not as much as the overly-aggressive drivers who go when they don’t have right of way. I think that contributes to overly cautious drivers. Overly aggressive drivers are THE WORST.

  20. Mathalamus2 Avatar

    yeah id wave you on, if you are the only other car in the area. sometimes i wanna be polite.

  21. IllegalIranianYogurt Avatar

    Be predictable not polite

  22. PanAmFlyer Avatar

    It is just as dangerous not to take the right of way when you have it, as it is to take it when you don’t.

  23. Next-Honeydew4130 Avatar

    Not unpopular opinion

  24. MontEcola Avatar

    This is part of Rule 1 on the roads: Be predictable. Go when it is your turn. Do not go if it is not your turn. Use your turn signals. And stay the F out of the passing lane unless you are passing someone and going 20 miles over the limit.