Even if you’re having sex often, do you still masturbate? If yes, why?

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Even if you’re having sex often, do you still masturbate? If yes, why?

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  1. lostinsauce111 Avatar

    Yes. High testosterone.

  2. Sad-Opening-6531 Avatar

    Occasionally if I go on a trip or something. But if you have a girlfriend that lives with you, you really don’t need to.

  3. NaughtyFridaaa Avatar

    yes it´s two different world, and i can´t get enough

  4. cumdiets Avatar

    Yes. I like my alone time very much, plus I know myself best.

  5. Truthisnotallowed Avatar

    Depends – how often is ‘often’?

    Also depends on your age and sex drive. Most healthy males will masturbate frequently, even when they have a healthy sex life with their SO already.

  6. Livingat7000 Avatar

    The older I’ve gotten the more I’ve noticed this happening: after a high intensity night with my wife, I’ll wake up a few hours later with the uncontrollable urge to masturbate and get one more in.

  7. InHerBlood Avatar

    I love cumming

  8. sswam Avatar

    Sure, why not. Maybe your partner is not in the mood.

  9. Stunning-Taste-5269 Avatar

    Yes because if having regular sex I tend to get blue balls really easy so still need to walk to stop it happening

  10. twaddleduck123 Avatar

    Gotta go to work

  11. Alarming_Sample2412 Avatar

    I have a elder sister who is very hot and sexy and she has big boobs. Whenever I see her i couldn’t resist myself. From very early stage I had a crush on her and I always wanted to fuck her. 6 months ago I took some confidence and confronted her and told my felling about her. She was asmso frustrated at life and she was ready for what I wanted for so long. After that we had sex and did all types of naughty stuffs.

    After that it became a habit for both of us and now we cannot stop fucking each other. I have a girlfriend but still I couldn’t stop fucking my elder sister because she is so sexy and has big tits

  12. Kozil3k Avatar

    Yes. Mostly because I have a high sex drive.

  13. Littlebigdicc Avatar

    I mean it seems improbable, bordering on impossible, that a partner will always want it when you want it every time

    It fills in the gaps

    Also sometimes it’s just faster/more convenient than full on partnered sex

    I think the idea that you “should” stop just because you have sex makes less sense 😐

  14. Live-Watercress2636 Avatar

    I had a crazy time when I was 18-19 with a girl.

    We practically had sex 24/7 and barely slept for a maximum of 2-3 hours. (I was completely destroyed after 4 months lol)

    In any case, we had the same job but didn’t always have the same shifts, so to pass the time (it was only a few hours) she always made videos.

  15. WorkingLoose6083 Avatar

    Help with stress relief for the time being when she’s not around

  16. Lowkey-Reddit Avatar

    Ones person idea of “often” is different to someone else’s. I could cum 2 times a day! My partner might only want sex 3 times a week, to some that’s often. Sometimes you just get the urge to nut and your partner is either not available or not in the mood

  17. linda-zhangsta Avatar

    Yes. Helps me sleep to get off before bed haha. Plus I do have friends with benefits but I don’t see them every day

  18. Purple-Professor9573 Avatar

    Oh yeah pretty often. I have sex every other day give or take, and I masturbate on days I don’t have hookups. 24M and I’m single so why not?

  19. OGDarkman Avatar

    Yes as I only see my girlfriend on the weekends so masturbating keeps the edge off she knows I do it so it’s fine bets if both worlds sex and masturbation

  20. Advanced_Error1600 Avatar

    I masterbate at least twice a day but I’m only 19 and single.

  21. iamnogoodatthis Avatar

    No. Usually only if we’re apart for a few days. When we’re together, she has a higher libido than I do.

  22. Long_Ad5146 Avatar

    Because I still rub one out three times a day , if not more,

  23. MatiSultan Avatar

    If you have a million dollars, would you pick up a free 20$?

  24. Long_Ad5146 Avatar

    I still shoot white ropes twice to three times daily

  25. tryinandsurvivin Avatar

    Sometimes i need to get off again and they’re asleep.

  26. fuckReddit2262 Avatar

    Marriage sex on tap and still jerk of once a week honestly old habits die hard.

  27. Ok-Lettuce5983 Avatar

    i usually do it more often when i have sex often idk why

  28. armandkugan9 Avatar

    Because sex involves me doing the extra work. Sometimes I just need to release asap.

  29. Dokusei_Gnar_Bot Avatar

    I expect a lot of people to do so because of different libido.

  30. Ok_Nothing_0707 Avatar

    Sometimes I’m bored. Sometimes wife is just not around and I’m all horny.

  31. Accomplished_Map907 Avatar

    Yes! Sometimes I masterbate multiple times in one day.

  32. pedroarmedro Avatar

    Yes.

    After having sex with the girlfriend, it’s nice to have some fun time thinking about her other two sisters.

  33. Short-Astronomer2739 Avatar

    Have been with my wife 16+ years, married 12. Masturbated for the first time since getting together a few weeks ago. Never felt the need until then. But recently both our sex drives and libidos have skyrocketed and she was sick so thought fuck it why not. Got the job done but definitely not as satisfying

  34. Bradrb66 Avatar

    Yes. For a couple of reasons.

    I work nights, so I only get to see my wife when my weekend rolls around (more during summer, because she’s a teacher.)

    Self care is important.

    Sometimes I just need to relieve some stress, and that’s the best way I can do that.

  35. bhaktterigaandjalegi Avatar

    I do it last longer.

  36. matildaoctober Avatar

    IchI think everyone does it

  37. Introspekt83 Avatar

    Different interpretation of often

  38. ThatBrenon131 Avatar

    Yeah I’m trying to blow out this kidney stone. Not sure if it’s possible but I’ve tried everything

  39. Business-Stretch2208 Avatar

    Yes, because I am trying to figure out how to have orgasms. Even if I wasn’t, it feels good

  40. lazy_pasta_eater Avatar

    F here. Yes, in fact the more often I have sex the more often I masturbate. My husband and I have amazing sex and like to discuss fantasies, and these fantasies often stay in my head for days so I need to masturbate. Also my husband likes knowing I’m masturbating whilst thinking about him 😋

  41. elroyonline Avatar

    Everybody needs a hobby

  42. keepitmoving007 Avatar

    Yes. We have sex nearly daily and I masturbate or edge throughout the day. It’s like a domino effect; the more you do it the more your body wants it. Still always in the mood after two or three orgasms. Helps me last longer too.

  43. didnotbuyWinRar Avatar

    Yes, my ex would get furious about it saying that she should be enough, even trying to tell me I wasn’t allowed to (flat out told her no to that, not her choice) but would only want to have sex once every two weeks or so. People have different sex drives and that’s okay, but you have to be able to make up the difference.

  44. Material-Tank5689 Avatar

    Cause when I masturbate, I cum

  45. ihave3balls79 Avatar

    I have a third ball. If i don’t, I’ll have wet dreams.

  46. Some_Belgian_Guy Avatar

    Yes. I travel a lot for work. There is something about closing the hotel room door behind you that sparks an uncontrolable urge to get buttnaked and masturbate.

  47. Guess-who-back Avatar

    Sir, this is a Reddit

  48. mercV2077 Avatar

    Does receiving handjob counts as sex? or as masturbation? Everyday I shower before going to work and my wife practically made it a habit to jerk me off every single day before showering. So if it does count as masturbation, then it’s because it just became a habit at this point. 8 years together and it’s been happening every day for the past 2 years without me asking. She just goes in the shower whenever I do and proceeds to beat the hell out of my meat without me asking. Most of the times I love it but sometimes I felt like being used just for her amusement lol. I don’t think I will meet another girl like her if ever she left me so I just let her do it even at times when I am really tired or not in the mood.

  49. Bigpotatoman69_ Avatar

    Cause I’m always horny

  50. Candle-Jolly Avatar

    The same reason this question was asked a few days ago.

  51. meiguess2-5 Avatar

    Depends on if the sex I had was satisfying. If a guy doesn’t get me off during sex it’s very frustrating for me because it’s incredibly easy to make me cum (I can cum from just penetration). So if I have sex and don’t get to cum I have to do it myself because I’m so pent up. If the sex was good I can go a day or two before needing anything.

  52. ShinJiwon Avatar

    Do you stop eating hamburgers even if you got a life time supply of steak?

  53. GiantSquirrelPanic Avatar

    If I have sex often or a lot, it actually makes my background horniness much higher at a baseline level. I guess because my body recognizes that baby making is imminent so it ramps up the hormone production. So I actually jerk off more often if I make love often. Averaging one orgasm per day or so, sometimes more.

    During dry spells I might go two weeks without, my interest just moves to other things for a while.

  54. Dan_Galactic Avatar

    Sometimes a good wank is better than a shit shag

  55. Flaminghotskittles Avatar

    Im frequently horny and it helps relieve stress. Plus if im doubting my partner is up to it that night I might as well get it out of my system beforehand, she can always butter me up for round 2 or 3 either way.

  56. Just_For_Fun_Dude123 Avatar

    Yes Because I am almost always horny.

  57. Swerve99 Avatar

    sex almost everyday. jerk it every shower.

  58. Fine_Singer_7908 Avatar

    I like masterbating rarely better not everyone knows what to doo but I can I even have cream poof one year

  59. Ok-Office-6918 Avatar

    Yes. I love masturbating to my girls nudes and feet pics :3

  60. allday77420 Avatar

    Because it would be rude to ask her sister. So I whip out the old purple headed stink hammer and drag myself round the bedroom to holiday pics of her sister.

  61. AnnaInsatiable Avatar

    Often, I love it, I do it daily and frequently. It’s also a big turn on for my husband. He loves it when I tell him. Enjoy it! 🖤

  62. BerryBlitz666 Avatar

    It’s only ever to maintain my edge, but I have nights where I just can’t help myself. I love my partner and simply can’t get enough, either as a shared activity, or a fantasy when I’m alone.

  63. VillagerEleven Avatar

    Yes but more rarely. It’s more if a timing thing. I wake up earlier than my partner and go out to work. Sometimes I want to clear my head in the morning.

  64. Toastinho Avatar

    Daddy horny Michael.

  65. Titouf26 Avatar

    3-4 times a week with my fiance, but my drive is more like 6 times a week, so the rest is by myself! If we did it 6+ times a week, not sure I would.

    I used to have sex more than 6 times with an ex-partner but still enjoyed my time alone. Why? Because it wasn’t kinky enough for me.

    Luckily my fiancee is totally cool with what I’m into and will happily indulge me.

  66. mwryan90 Avatar

    Ffs this sub is honestly ridiculous

  67. he_ayerse Avatar

    Just like to do it before I go to sleep.

  68. FuerGrissa0stDrauka Avatar

    My bf and I have sex daily. Sometimes 2 or more times in a day( if we are able). We’ve been this way for 6 years. I rarely do. I don’t think he does.

  69. RaspberryTurtle987 Avatar

    Masturbating is sex, just solo.

  70. Biggyhead Avatar

    I like steak. I could eat steak almost every day. But sometimes, I just want a hotdog.

  71. Wrong_Damage4344 Avatar

    A few years ago, I would do it even after having sex 4-5 times a day. But now, the sex 4-5 times a day is enough

  72. Tobybrent Avatar

    Sometimes you just want the dessert not the three-course dinner

  73. beamerpook Avatar

    Because it’s easy and no commitment, no need to care about the others person feeling

    I think Charlie Sheen said, I don’t pay prostitute for the sex, I pay for them to leave when I’m done

  74. wet_ass_pussy_69 Avatar

    Yes, sometimes I prefer my vibrator… Maybe 4 times a week…

  75. timeforacatnap852 Avatar

    Yes. Stress relief, some times boredom.

  76. DobreEmpire Avatar

    I am having it like 12 times a week and still masturbate. Bf doesn’t feel comfortable with the forced sex roleplay I want and it’s basically the only thing that turns me on so much that I can finish in seconds. So yeah, that’s the reason why I’m still masturbating.

  77. laughingdandy Avatar

    Yeah, sometimes I just want to get rid of that urge, not necessarily go through the entire act of sex.

  78. Loud_Musician_7282 Avatar

    Yes, for me, sex with a partner is about more than me, I enjoy making my partner orgasm and enjoy herself. Fulfilling her needs. While masturbation is just for me, I can rub one out in like 3 minutes, get that endorphin rush and go on with my day.

  79. Pochusaurus Avatar

    No, when I cum while having sex its so intense my balls need 3 business days to recharge

  80. Opposite_Onion_8020 Avatar

    Yeah. And my girl is 27 years younger than me. I have a high sex drive – true. But it’s something other than that. I’m not sure how to describe the fact that sometimes it’s just better alone.

  81. dementedskeptic Avatar

    Nope not at all I save my energy

  82. Salomill Avatar

    One doesn’t substitute the other, its great to have sex but sometimes i don’t want to get some other person in the mood, worry about her enjoyment and thinking about her orgasm, i just want to think about me and what makes me feel good.

  83. Reesno33 Avatar

    Everyone wants to play in the cup final, but that doesn’t mean I stop enjoying kicking the wall against a wall now and again.

  84. Sure-Astronaut-7957 Avatar

    Yes. I almost masturbate in the shower every day even when I used to have sex regularly. But maybe this is because of my high sex drive and maybe it isn’t normal? 😮‍💨

  85. Majestic_beer Avatar
  86. Jarvis_imlow_onkarma Avatar

    Jarvis,I’m low on karma

  87. oldschoolhc Avatar

    yes, im an orgasm addict

  88. leapeva Avatar

    Yes, it’s easily available without any hassle

  89. ActualBathsalts Avatar

    Yes. It’s nice.

  90. OZFox42 Avatar

    There’s an old saying … “masturbation is having sex with someone you love”.

  91. Anxious_Pattern_2844 Avatar

    Sometimes you crave real sex sometimes you want porn 😂

  92. Captain_Deskchair Avatar

    The wife isn’t always in the mood and sometimes I’m too exhausted to put the effort in. I’m a welder by trade and it’s an exhausting job working 10 hours days.

    She is the first person I’ve ever been with where I can just straight up say “hey I’m gonna go jerk off” and she doesn’t mind. Usually she’ll offer to help, but sometimes we are both just too tired.

  93. get-a-job69 Avatar

    Yes because I’m blasting 75mg test a day and am horny

  94. FilmOrnery8925 Avatar

    No and no. I quit masturbate cuz it got in the way of life at times and I do not get any women so we in the dry spout season that regards I guess.

  95. Acceptable-Cup-9289 Avatar

    Back when I was in a relationship, we both had pretty high sex drive and would fuck constantly, so there wasn’t really time to masturbate, but when we weren’t together I would beat it on a regular basis.

  96. yourbank Avatar

    She rarely opens her legs so yeah

  97. Darkconer Avatar

    Usually when I fuck I’m mostly (basically only) I just wanna make the dude nut like I’d praise the dick and that gets me off for the most part but if it’s not enough to satisfy my urge I’ll jerk off after. Tbf making dudes cum helps with the nut

  98. bajajet Avatar

    Masturbating is not necessary to me if you are having sex more often

  99. Rom21 Avatar

    Of course. It’s perfectly normal.
    The pleasure is not the same.

    I can eat a steack and still have some snacks.

  100. Invalidsuccess Avatar

    Sometimes it’s just better. no exceptions but your own ,