As of now there are no couples that i know personally in which both people were loyal, and it’s breaking my brain. I’ve been cheated on before, but I’ve never cheated. And I don’t plan to. But I’m now realizing that every other long-term couple I know has had “infidelity” in some way. Three of my close friends in relationships of 3+ years ended up cheating on their boyfriends ONE TIME but all are still together, my other close friend in a relationship of 3+ years got cheated on but stayed, my parents cheated on eachother, and now my dad cheats on my stepmom. and now my sister, who I look up to, cheated on her boyfriend. This is heartbreaking, because their 4+ year relationship I sort of idolized after never having a good example of a healthy relationship before. I don’t know how to feel, why is everyone a cheater? Will it happen in my relationship (my bf and i are coming up on 2 years)? Has it happened already? Is this just apart of life, if I want to be in lasting love do I have to just be okay with that? i just can’t believe there isn’t a single lasting relationship that I know of where both people were fully loyal. WTF
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If you cheat on your partner, your friendship with me is dead. Hopefully you stopped talking to those people, because who you continue to associate with speaks on who you are as a person.
I’d rather be alone than have cheaters as my only friends.