It’s only getting in my nerves atp. Every time someone touches (with hands, mouth, tongue, whatever) my clit directly it feels way too much and super overwhelming. only when i touch myself (fingers or vibrator) i have a good time and can climax because it’s the only way it feels good. i’ve slept with quite an amount of people and no one did it in a way that was enjoyable, even when i told them that im super sensitive and that they should not touch me there it just lead to them stroking my labias which doesn’t feel uncomfortable but also is not arousing at all. i would love to just be less sensitive. can i desensitize myself in any way? it’s super frustrating having to brief everyone that i sleep with that they can only finger me by putting the fingers inside of me and that i simply don’t enjoy oral sex although the thought of it really turns me on and i would love to do it and have a good time during… i’m losing hope atp…
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I don’t even have a good time touching myself, let alone when others do it. I feel incredibly uncomfortable. I achieve orgasm through other methods
I got on meds for this and it literally changed my life. It’s still more sensitive than for most people but much better than it was and sex is actually enjoyable most of the time now
Have you ever had a long term partner? If you have just one partner for a long time they usually figure out the combination to your orgasm.