Good morning…
I’m writing this from my car, parked in a public. It’s been a rough few days—yesterday, my mother, who has been a severe alcoholic and emotionally/verbally abusive throughout my life, finally kicked me out. We had another fight (the kind that’s always made worse by her drinking), and this time, she told me to leave.
I packed what I could, but the problem is, I have literally £0 to my name right now. My next paycheck doesn’t come in until the 10th, and that feels like an eternity. I don’t even have enough for food, let alone figuring out somewhere more permanent to stay.
I feel so lost and overwhelmed right now. I’ve been trying to save, but living with her and dealing with the constant chaos made it nearly impossible to get ahead.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any advice for getting through the next few days? I’m open to anything right now, honestly. Just trying to breathe and figure out my next steps.
Thanks for reading.
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I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It hits close to home because my mom was mentally and verbally abusive to me too. It’s so hard when the people who should protect us end up hurting us. Right now, focus on the basics. Find a safe place to rest, even if it’s a friend’s couch or a shelter. Reach out to local food banks or community centers. They often have resources for people in tough spots like this. Don’t be ashamed to ask for help. You’re not alone. Keep reminding yourself this is temporary and things can get better once you’re out of that toxic environment. If you want, I can help you look for resources or just be here to listen. Hang in there.
No money and kicked out? Act fast. Food banks and shelters are lifelines. Waiting until the 10th risks everything.
Your mom kicked you out, you’re broke until the 10th, and living in your car. Right now, the priority is shelter, food, and warmth. Reach out to nearby shelters, charities, food banks, or crisis centers. It’s tough, but you’re not alone, there is help out there.
I don’t know how things work in the UK so I can’t give practical advice but I can offer emotional support.
That is a tough situation. It probably feels like you are deep in the weeds right now but you are away from an abusive relationship and that’s the most important thing.
This is your chance to let go and start focusing on yourself. If you have any family or friends who are willing to help you out initially until you get in your feet will be good. Just keep in mind that this is a step toward your freedom and independence. It is scary but once you get everything working and you stand on your own two feet you will feel liberated and proud of yourself. You’ve got this!!