i met this guy on a dating app and within some time only he asked me out. we went to an art musuem and he got me chocolates and it was cute we even kissed and then decided to go back to his place where we went to second base. i gave him a handjob and then he touched me and went down on me but could not make me cum. i was feeling bad that he was trying so i just ended up faking it.
so then after few days we decide to meet up again. it was just for sex. but he was very sweet got me flowers more chocolates and everything and then we started making out when we went to his home. it was good in the beginning. he again tried to make me cum rubbing me and all but couldn’t so i though let’s switch a bit gave him a blowjob he came like within 2-3 minutes. then i wanted him to go down on me but he didn’t. he kept trying to rub and finger me to make me cum but his technique was all wrong and couldn’t.
i told him maybe you can fuck me. and he first tried going in raw and im like dude put on a fucking condom. hes like just once like i wont come and all and im like no dude. put on a fucking condom. so he does and this guy withing 2-3 minutes he cums.
went on like this. i even tried diff positions tried riding him but his dick kept slipping off cause it was like small (i think he was between 4-4.5) and like tried making me cum again. couldn’t. tried fucking me but i thought the condom broke in between so i told him to stop and he lost his boner because of that.
then in the end he touched me again and at this point i just wanted it to be over so i faked it. then i thought he was gonna fuck me again but he didnt??? like he wanted to cuddle like wtf.
then on the way back to my home it was like so awkward and weird. no flirting or anything. he asked me if my first time was good and i was like hmm yeah 😀, and he was like hmm yeah? so jot good? and im like no it was good.
and then he has the audacity to ask me if i would still be down to giving him blowjobs if i wasn’t horny and i got so pissed so i said maybe if you went down on me you know. like i wanted to so badly tell him you didn’t make me cum ffs.
so then he dropped me off. and he’s like still texting me after so yeah that was my first experience. it wasn’t so terrible atleast he was like not an asshole but yeah.
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He sounds inexperienced.
Also, you should definitely tell him he didn’t make you cum. Because otherwise the next girl he’s with is going to suffer the lack of practice.
Could’ve been better, could’ve been worse. All in all I think it’s good to lose your v to someone caring enough but not someone you want to marry so you can still go have fun and explore. A lot of people lose theirs to someone they’re in a serious relationship with and get stuck with them for too long.
So the whole story is about bad chocolate? 😀
Well communication is key trying telling each other what works for you
Just inexperience. But if there’s anything you shouldn’t do, it’s fake an orgasm. Communication is key in sex. If you can’t properly communicate your needs to your partner so they can make you cum, then what’s even the point of the entire charade? Be honest, tell them what they’re doing wrong, and if they don’t like it and get upset, leave because they don’t deserve your time.
There’s nothing better in life than being with someone who you’re sexually compatible with. There’s nothing worse than being stuck with someone who can’t make you cum.
Should send him an article on how to please a woman.
usually the first time is kinda shit, don’t be surprised lol
To be fair you both sound bad.. If you want to make this work you both have to talk openly
If he came two times it’s gonna be hard to sit on him specially with a condom.
Why fake? Keep it like it is.
> it was like small (i think he was between 4-4.5)
Thats above average, right fellas?