My mom won’t let me go on a trip w my bf😭
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, and we’re in a long distance relationship since we live in different countries. He’s planning to visit my country in November and stay for two weeks, so we decided to go on a short trip to a small town together.
But when I told my mom, she completely shut it down and told me not to even mention it to my dad.
I totally get that they’re worried about me probably because of pregnancy.
But the thing is, we’re both Christians and we’ve agreed to wait until marriage.
I know he’d understand if I explained the situation to him, but it just sucks that we can’t even spend time together properly.
My mom says she can’t understand where I’m coming from, and that hurts even more
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3 months isn’t long enough to know the person and know that you’ll be safe. I support your mom in this situation.
Have you FaceTimed with him?
This has future missing/murder documentary written all over it. Girl. Do not go anywhere with him. You barely know this man.