have been with my partner 11 years. We have built a family and a home together. There has been ups and downs in our relationship as most couples do. But what has got me the past few months (wether or not I have finally took the googles off is what you could call it) but I have noticed how much my partner has went behind my back, made false promises, went back on his words or just not being openly honest with me until he is caught out. Now don’t get me wrong, no one is perfect we all make mistakes but how many mistakes can one person make and be forgiven for. Whether it’s been for lying about where he is or who he’s talking to. whether it’s about finances or money. Promises to go places for the day and not went. Promises to spend more time together than going out with friends instead. The list goes on. Am I just over-reacting? Or over thinking? Is the thoughts going round my head. But I just can’t seem to shack the feelings off this time.
TL;DR :- partner unable to be honest with me, makes failed promises and I just don’t know how I feel about it no more.