Could a lack of attraction to my partner be the reason I’m not feeling attracted to women rn?
The girl I’ve been dating recently is great. I really like her and we get along really well, but I’ve always worried that there’s a bit of a spark missing with us sexually. I often worry that I’m not attracted to her sexually and lately I’ve found that it’s made me spiral into questioning my attraction to any girl I’ve liked. I’ve had plenty of enjoyable sexual experiences with girls but now I find that this spiral has caused me to feel little to nothing to any woman now and has somewhat killed my mojo. Girls I know I’d normally find really attractive I just feel completely neutral to and it’s honestly kind of concerning. Anyone else had this kind of experience, what did you do?
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Pursuit the kinds of people you are attracted to, women or otherwise.
Sounds like you weren’t really physically into her and forced yourself to be with her bc of personality or obligations etc.
Dude, you’re just going down the rabbit hole, legally there’s some existential reasons why you feel that way, it might not have anything to do with the person you’re sleeping with, and everything to do with your relationship absent of sex
Have you tried dudes?
Maybe you are interested in a relationship without sex and there is nothing wrong with that. There are plenty of people that want an emotional relationship without the physical.
Take time to reconnect with yourself first. Figure out if it’s burnout, disconnection, or something deeper. You’re not broken, just out of alignment.