Hii I’m 18M and She 18F I loveee her soo much I meann so much and she loves me too but the problem is we barely meet each other once in a month cuz She has strict parents and they only allow her to go out with her bsf so Its a cupid That if I have to meet her, her female bsf will come along to but because of this we barely meet each other sometimes when both of us are ready to meet and all the conditions are okay her bsf get stuck in a problem because of it we both don’t get to meet each other, I have been turned downed so many times like this that I feel disgusted whenever I ask my gf to meet idk maan I know that it not because of her she wanna meet me too and I don’t blame her. I just feel disgusted about myself that how many times I’ve got turned down, and now that her bsf has gone to college we both can’t meet each other for next 3 months. Help me yall I don’t like this feeling its not like I don’t want to meet I jus don’t feel like asking anymore because everytime I do all I get is a no and it hurt my excitement and feelings.
Feeling disgusted about myself
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Sounds like you’re ruminating on the negative thoughts about yourself, you’d probably get a lot out of meditation. š§āāļø
Have sex with both of them when you meet next time. They might feel more comfortable together šš¤
Don’t think that you are the problem. Show her that you are still interested in her even thought you can’t hang out very often. You are not the problem my guy. You are not